Meeting a woman who has all her life ducks in a row and is killing it independently can be intimidating for a lot of guys, but it really shouldn’t be. If you want an amazing relationship experience and to date a woman who will add to your life in all the best ways, get yourself a woman who has her life together — it will absolutely change your life. Here’s why:
She’s mastered the art of balance. She works hard all day to keep her life in order, but she also doesn’t hesitate to give herself some downtime once the daily hustle is complete. She curls up on the couch next to you with a hot plate of food, a drink in hand and is blissful AF because she knows she’s bossed yet another day. She feels good about herself, which makes it easy for you to feel good with her — there’s no stress.
She won’t screw up the finances. No, she’s not the girl who’s going to ask you to pay her share of the bills because she couldn’t resist yet another spending spree on crap she didn’t really need. She knows it’s important to handle her adult responsibilities before anything else. Rest assured, you won’t be declaring bankruptcy because of her someday — she knows how to budget.
She’s completely okay with being on her own. If you need to go out of town on a business trip or spend the weekend fishing with the boys, she fends for herself like it’s no big deal (because it isn’t). She enjoys her own space because she’s never needed someone else to lean on in order to feel complete or competent. In fact, she relishes her alone time when she gets it and because she deserves it.
She’s responsible AF. Not only is she highly organized but she’s also killing it in the responsibility game. Isn’t it nice not to have to teach someone how to do the basic stuff that adults are supposed to know how to do? Swoon.
She’s a breath of fresh air. Being with her makes you feel good about yourself because for once, you’re with someone who is a whole person all on her own. Even though you might genuinely enjoy providing for her and making thoughtful gestures to show her that you care, you know it’s not something she needs in order to feel validated — she does that for herself.
She’s organized but not a control freak. There’s a difference between the girl who needs everything to be perfect to the point of insanity and the girl who’s simply cool and collected and gets her sh*t done. A woman who has her act together might mess up from time to time, but she doesn’t have a meltdown about it nor will she freak out and pass the blame onto you. She simply re-structures her goal and aims to get it done the best way that she can.
Her independence is attractive AF. You can’t help but become mesmerized by her and the mastery she displays in everything she does. Her bills are paid and she has a real and proper career that she’s consistently working her butt off at to succeed in even further. She doesn’t just have attractive qualities about her, she’s downright sexy AF.
She knows how to make a real meal and doesn’t live off take-out. Sure, she doesn’t mind hitting up the occasional Taco Tuesday and she might have her favorite pizza place on speed dial but those are for her right to indulge, not a way of life. She doesn’t look at a frozen chicken quizzically wondering how the hell to dethaw it and make it into something edible because she’s a fantastic cook due to the fact that she taught her damn self. Oh, and her meals taste like you’ll want to wife her someday.
She has her own opinions. Having her act together means she’s her own unique person and she doesn’t apologize for it. She knows herself, what she wants out of life and how she feels about things, which is why she doesn’t hesitate to say what’s on her mind or how she feels about anything — even the sensitive subjects. Being with her isn’t just easy and fun, it’s also liberating to be with a woman who has a mind of her own.
She’s with you simply because she wants to be. Being with a woman who’s with you for no other reason other than the fact she adores you makes you feel like a pretty damn lucky guy. You know her affection for you is nothing but pure and genuine. She doesn’t need you, she wants you for you — it’s as simple as that. She’s a queen who’s already built her own castle and together you rule as nothing but an empire.
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