It took me a long time to build up such a strong sense of self-worth, but I’m finally there. I know what I deserve and I won’t settle anymore. I’m waiting for a real relationship and I won’t give up until I find it. Here’s why I’m the girl of any emotionally mature and grown man’s dreams:
- I want something that lasts. I’m not looking for a flash in the pan or a casual fling. I want a compatible partner for a life of happiness and bliss. I’m ready to find my true love in life so that I can share everything I have to offer with him. I’m capable of so much affection and kindness and I need a man who returns that in kind. I don’t have time or energy for silly drama.
- I know I deserve a great relationship. Gone are the days when I settled for mediocrity because I had no self-esteem. I’m aware now that I’m far better than that. I have so much going for me and I need someone who appreciates it. I’m a loving and wonderful partner to any man I date, and I deserve the same in return. I’m finally ready for a mature, adult love.
- I don’t have a wandering eye. Once a man earns my love and trust, I’ll never go astray. I have no desire to mess up a good thing, and honestly, one guy takes up enough time and energy. I don’t have that much to go around! I don’t even bother looking at other men because I’m perfectly content. My guy can always count on me to love him and be there for him.
- I’m loyal AF. I’ll always have my guy’s back no matter what. We’re a team, and a team supports and uplifts one another. He doesn’t have to worry that I’ll speak poorly of him when he’s not around or cut him down in public. If I ever do have issues with what he’s doing, I’ll address it with him privately and talk it out like an adult.
- I’m honest even when it’d be easier to lie. I’ve learned that honesty is essential in a relationship, even when it’s tough to hear. I expect my partner to tell me the truth no matter what, and I will do the same. Lying, even if it seems fairly harmless at the time, only hurts both of us in the long run. I’m honest in life and I will be truthful with my boyfriend as well.
- I’m genuine. What you see is what you get with me. Someone may love it or hate it, but at least they know it’s real. I refuse to compromise who I am for any man. I did that too many times when I was younger. Now I know the value of waiting for a guy who appreciates my authenticity and is also completely himself. I don’t play games.
- I have strong convictions. If a man digs wishy-washy, confused little girls, I’m definitely not right for him. I don’t want that energy in my life. I’m a strong person with bold opinions and beliefs. When a man can go toe-to-toe with me both emotionally and intellectually, I know he’s worth my time. Someday the two of us will find each other.
- I’m kind and generous. I used to be too shy to feel proud of these qualities. Now I know how rare they are and I’m more than happy to possess them. I do my best to help anyone who needs it, whether that involves giving them my money, my skills or my time. I know how lucky I am in life compared to a lot of people. I’m the best friend and companion a man will ever have because I genuinely care about others.
- I don’t suffer fools. When I finally meet that mature, forthright, compassionate man, he’ll know that I see him for the wonder he is. I don’t waste my time with players or guys who can’t handle me. It’s pointless and it doesn’t do them any favors either. They have a lot to learn before they end up with a woman like me. When I choose a man, he’ll know I did it because I think he’s wonderful.
- I’m the best girlfriend ever. No matter what’s happened between me and my past loves, none of them would ever deny that I’m an amazing partner. I take pride in the way I treat those I care about, including my friends, my family and my boyfriend. Once I love a man, I give him my all. I commit to working on and improving our partnership every single day. I know that relationships take work, but I also know that the right guy is definitely worth it. I would go to the moon and back just to make him happy.
