Want To Up Your Blowjob Game? Try These 13 Things Next Time

There’s an art to giving a good BJ. Just like you want a guy to know what he’s doing when he goes down on you, you should pay some attention to your technique. Here are some ways to ensure you’ll be remembered as the girl who gave him the best blowjob of his life:

Lavish some love on the surrounding areas. To be blunt, a great blowjob isn’t all about his package. You want to create some anticipation leading up to actual contact so he’s already fully aroused before you get there. Give some attention to his lower stomach, his thighs, and his hips. Women often neglect those areas, so he’ll be pleasantly surprised.

Know how to tease. Part of the strategy behind paying attention to those often-overlooked areas like the hipbones is to tease him before you get anywhere near his junk. One of the most important elements of a great blowjob is building up the sexual tension leading to the release. Don’t give him what he’s asking for right away.

Alternate different sensations. It’s all about variety. Use your fingernails — lightly — to graze and tickle and scratch. Use your fingertips to knead and press and caress. Use your lips to kiss and hum. Use your tongue for whatever you want! There’s so much you can do besides just take him into your mouth immediately.

Get your hands involved. You need to invite everything to the party. Yes, it adds a layer of complication, but it’s worth it. You’re going to give him more enjoyment if you’re multitasking with both your mouth and hands. It takes some focus and practice, but you’ll definitely make an impression. That way you never leave either the frank or the beans unattended.

Use your teeth — with care! A lot of girls are afraid to use them at all, and of course it terrifies lots of men, but a bit of light dental action can work miracles. Definitely ask beforehand and get the okay to proceed before you do anything with your teeth. This move requires trust. If you surprise him, he’s going to lose his boner immediately. It’ll literally shrink with terror.

Don’t neglect his … other parts. Yes, this means the balls, ladies. Why is everyone so afraid of the balls? They’re no weirder than a penis, yet women aren’t sure what to do with them. To be fair, every man is different. Try fondling them a bit with your hands and see how he reacts. If he likes it, give them some more love orally. If he doesn’t, back off.

Alternate different techniques. This is completely separate from alternating sensations. If you’re using long, straight strokes with your hands to manually pleasure him, trying switching it up with twisting strokes or using one hand on his shaft and one to manipulate his testes. Go back and forth from licking and nibbling to taking him in your mouth completely. Try different speeds.

Bring him back from the edge a few times. Work him until you can tell he’s on the brink of orgasm, then slow it down. Keep doing this until you can tell he’s legitimately going crazy, and then give him the big payoff. This is the key move that’ll keep him begging for you time and time again.

Make eye contact. This kills guys every time. It can feel weird, but do it and he’ll love it. If you’re too shy to look him straight in the eye while you’re going down on him, take a break and smile at him while you use your hands instead. It’ll remind him that a super sexy lady is rocking his world.

Make him touch you. This can be a fun activity for both of you. You can make a game out of it if you want, trading sensation for sensation. Often guys like to be a part of the action even when they’re receiving oral sex. It enhances your enthusiasm for giving him head if he’s pleasuring you as well. Everyone wins.

… Or don’t let him touch you at all. Want to make him really crazy? Tease him, play with him, and force his hands away from you every time they get near. This firm denial will drive him insane. You can even pin his hands down if you want to get really aggressive. Trust me, it’ll turn him on.

Give him pleasure in an unexpected location. A guy never forgets his first road head… or his second… or his third. If the idea of running off the road scares you, try a dark corner of a parking lot or secluded side street. Graze him with your hand under the table at the restaurant. Pull him into a bathroom for a quickie blowjob. He’ll love it all.

Stay in the moment. It sounds corny, but it matters. If you’re totally focused on giving your man pleasure and in tune with his reactions, he’ll be able to tell. This is the secret ingredient of a truly phenomenal blowjob. If you’re distracted or bored, it’ll definitely detract from your performance. Just think about how you would want him to go down on you!

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