10 Texting Red Flags That Mean He’s Not Worth Your Time

If your man treats Siri better than he treats you, it’s time to dump him. We all love our phones, but they shouldn’t be more important to us than our partners are. That’s why you should pay attention to the way that your man texts. There are some major red flags you need to keep an eye out for.

He won’t use his phone in front of you.

If he puts his phone on airplane mode whenever he visits you, it’s not so he can spend more time with you. It’s so the names of his side chicks don’t pop up on his screen. So if he never texts in front of you, and never lets you go anywhere near his phone, you should start worrying.

It takes him days to respond.

If it takes him days to respond to your texts, you’re clearly not his top priority. If he really liked you, then he would find the time to type up a quick message, even if he was busy at work. It’s not that difficult for him to do.

He double texts.

If he texted you five minutes ago, and then texts you again asking if you received his last message, it’s a major red flag. It’s nice to have a boyfriend who cares about you, but you don’t want someone who’s obsessive. If he can’t wait ten minutes for a response, he’s too attached.

He only texts when he’s drunk.

If you only receive late night messages from him that are misspelled, he’s hoping you’ll have sex with him. If he wanted an actual relationship with you, he’d talk to you more often. Drunk texts suggest he’s looking for a booty call.

He erases all of his texts.

If he lets you handle his phone, and you notice that he doesn’t have any messages in his inbox, it means he deleted every text after he read them. That’s some suspicious behavior, because it usually only happens when he has something to hide. Something like an affair.

He always asks for nudes.

If he only texts you to ask for nudes—or even worse, sends you random penis pictures—you shouldn’t bother to respond to him. A guy like that is only interested in sex. Unless you’re looking for a one-night stand, keep your distance from him.

He never texts first.

If you’re always the one initiating conversations, there’s a problem. He should be just as eager to talk to you as you are to talk to him. If the texting convos are one-sided, then the relationship is one-sided.

He’s on social media, but won’t text.

If he hasn’t responded to your texts, but he’s been writing clever Tweets all day, he’s definitely seen your messages. He’s just choosing not to respond to them. That means that he doesn’t care about what you have to say, so why should you care about him?

He phubs you.

If he phone snubs you, head for the door. When you’re out on a date, you should be the only thing worth paying attention to. If he finds his phone more interesting than you, don’t hesitate to call it quits.

He won’t call.

If you try to call him, but he responds with a text instead, then he might be out with another girl. He doesn’t want to answer, because he doesn’t want you to hear her voice. Of course, he might just hate phone calls.

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