As a guy, I have no doubt that you ladies enjoy it when a guy pines for you a bit when you’re not around. The trick is finding ways to make him miss you without even talking to him. Believe it or not, there are plenty of ways to do just that if you’re clever and know what you’re doing. Here’s how to make a guy miss you in a few easy steps.
Don’t text him.
Okay, this is a little bit like playing a game, but it can work. Odds are, the guy you’re dating is accustomed to you texting him regularly. Try taking a break from that texting. You don’t want to do this for too long because he’ll think that you’re not interested. Just make him wait a little more than usual for you to text him. If he’s used to getting your texts and they’re suddenly not there, he’ll start to miss you. He’ll also be forced to text you first.
Try “the leave behind.”
This is definitely a tad manipulative, I admit, but it can make a guy miss you. Just leave a small belonging of yours in his home or in his car so that he’ll find it but think you just forgot it. That way, he’ll have something of yours that will make him think of you when you’re not around. It doesn’t have to be something too big or too valuable, just a little something that’s undeniably yours.
Use social media to your advantage.
Needless to say, social media can be a huge manipulation tool in relationships. That makes it a great way to get a guy to miss you. Just post pictures of yourself looking good and enjoying your life. If you post pictures of yourself with other people, especially guys, you can also make a guy jealous at the same time. However, you don’t really even need to go that far – just photos of you enjoying your life and being happy will make a guy miss you and want to be with you.
Pretend your schedule is full.
Granted, this might require a text message or two, but being unavailable to a guy can make him miss you and want you more. Of course, if you’re lucky, you won’t have to pretend to be busy because you have other things going on in your life. That being said, just telling him that you’re too busy to hang out with him will give him a chance to miss you. Don’t do this regularly because he’ll get frustrated, but every once in a while is okay.
Do a group activity.
The best way to get a guy to miss you is to create a little bit of space. This can be accomplished by insisting that you two partake in a group activity. That way, you won’t have to talk to him but you can be around him without being all over him. It’s your chance to become chummy with his friends and family, which will make him want you more and miss you because you’re not giving him all of your attention.
Insist on time with your girlfriends.
No matter the stage of a relationship, a guy will always miss you when you tell him that you need to ditch him for your girlfriends. In a way, it’s the perfect situation. He doesn’t have to worry about you being with other guys. But at the same time, you’re not around, so he has a chance to think about you and wish you were around.
Always be happy.
Never discount the importance of positive vibes. Happiness is always infectious and makes him want to be around you more. The best part is that you don’t have to talk to a guy to let him know that you’re a happy and upbeat person. It’s all about the way you carry yourself. If you’re always happy and can put a guy in a good mood, there’s no doubt that he’ll start to miss you when you’re not around.
Look your best.
It should go without saying, but nothing makes a guy pine for you like appealing to his superficial side. You don’t even have to talk to him – just make sure you look good around him. There’s no doubt that he’ll notice how good you look and want to see more of you.
Send him nostalgic pictures.
Nostalgia can be a powerful and manipulative tool. It’s also a great way to make a guy miss you, especially if you’ve already been together for a while. Try sending him a picture of yourself or the two of you during the early days of your relationship. That will make him remember what it was like early on and why he fell for you. That memory will remind him why he’s with you and make him miss you without you needing to say a word.