My Fiance Wants To Try A Threesome And I’m Going For It

Before I met my fiance, I’d never even considered having a threesome with my partner and another person—I always thought it would ruin the relationship afterward. However, I’ve changed a lot in the past two years and I no longer have the same opinion. Believe it or not, my fiance and I are actually actively looking for a girl to join us and might even resort to hiring a sex worker just to have it sooner—here’s why:

HE WANTS IT.

When we first started dating, he made it clear that this was something that he wanted to do—that he couldn’t see himself being intimate with only one woman for the rest of his life. I admit it kind of bothered me at first and hoped his mind would change, but as time passed, I considered the idea more and more until I finally wanted it myself.

MEN WILL ALWAYS THINK ABOUT IT.

Whether they admit it or not, they’ll always fantasize about having two women at once. Sure, they can hide it from you, but you can’t pretend that it never goes through their minds. Evolutionary psychologists will tell you that men’s desire to have multiple sex partners is inherited from our hunter-gatherer ancestors who wanted to increase the likelihood of having children. Having multiple partners is actually more “natural” than having only one.

THE IDEA AROUSES ME.

One of the few things that arouse me is the thought of my partner having sex with someone else. I don’t really understand why but I’ve always been like this. I’m an extremely jealous person, yet I often have to visualize him having sex with his ex-girlfriends just to be able to touch myself.

I BELIEVE IT WILL HELP WITH MY INSECURITIES.

I’ve always been jealous of big boobs, wide hips, and a nice butt. As someone who has to put up with a pair of As and a small butt, I sometimes think about getting breast enlargement surgery and wearing padded underwear (I can’t be the only one, right?), but my fiance says I’m sexy the way I am. I feel that if he still touches me like normal even when a new and hotter girl is around, I’m confident I’ll feel better about the things I perceive as imperfections.

IT Means GOING OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE.

I never went out of my comfort zone before meeting my boyfriend, but since being with him, I’ve traveled to five countries and done things I would never have considered trying previously. It’s thanks to all of these experiences that I’ve become a better, happier individual. Having a threesome will definitely be a whole new level of adventure.

I’M ATTRACTED To Women.

Even before I started dating men, I’d already been intimate with women but I was a lot younger then and I haven’t done it since. Sometimes, when I see a woman I’m attracted to, I can’t hep but stare at both her face and body and imagine her naked. My fiance doesn’t care who we pick, so I’m doing the picking—and I’m making sure she’s my type.

IT’LL SPICE UP OUR SEX LIFE.

I’m not saying our sex life is dead or lacking, but it can definitely be improved. We used to play with adult toys in bed, but since we’re nomads and we can’t just bring all those toys with us everywhere, we haven’t really done anything kinky. Also, I’m sure we’ll have plenty of leftover excitement to last us until the next time we decide to have a threesome.

IT CAN BRING US CLOSER.

It took over a year for my fiance and me to get this close. We’re truly happy with each other and we don’t really have any major problems in our relationship that we haven’t already overcome. If you see us now, you’ll probably say it can’t get any better, but I feel that having a threesome will only improve our emotional connection and reconfirm how real and deep our love is.

I TRULY WANT TO MAKE HIM HAPPY.

I want to see him sexually pleased. It doesn’t matter whether it’s me or someone else doing it as long as my consent is given. I love him and I will do everything in my power to make him happy just like he’ll do everything in his power to make me happy.

IT WILL BE A GREAT STORY TO TELL.

It’s not every day you hear about a couple still going stronger and happy after a threesome. Many have tried this and failed, but not us. I’m confident that after the act, we’ll only be happier with each other. I can’t wait to see how it goes.

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