One of the best parts about starting a new relationship is the chase. If you’re too clingy, the guy may be turned off, or worse, take you for granted. You’ve got to make him miss you and long for you. This way, he’ll realize how important you are and go out of his way to woo you. Here are 10 easy steps to make him wish you were there anytime you’re not.
Slow down or halt communication.
If you text and call him 24/7, he won’t have time to miss you. When he texts you, don’t reply right away. Make yourself busy so he’ll start to miss hearing from you. You should also consider missing a call or letting the phone ring for a while before you pick up. The general rule is to make him wait twice as long as he took to reply. If you wait too long, he might think you’re not interested at all. Find the right balance.
Send a sexy pic or a flirty text.
You can really get a guy going by snapping a sexy pic or sending a flirty text. Don’t give away too much. Tease him a little and let his mind wander. It will make him look forward to the next time he sees you even more. The best time to do this is when you’re both at home in bed. You wouldn’t want to send something inappropriate while he’s at work or around his friends.
You might feel like you need to lay everything on the table at once, but why rush? Take your time in letting him get to know you. If he already knows everything, he may feel like he’s already won you over and might become bored. Don’t offer information he doesn’t ask for but indicate that there’s more to you than meets the eye.
“Accidentally” leave something at his place.
The next time you go to his place or sit in his car, leave something that is clearly yours behind, like a bracelet, shirt, or even your undies(!). When he sees it, he’ll immediately think of you. He’ll offer to return it, but don’t rush over there. Let it stay on purpose so he’ll be reminded of you every time he comes across it.
Flirt with him.
The next time you see him, make sure you flirt with him a lot. Look longingly into his eyes and lean into him when he talks. Don’t be afraid to do things like wink at him, touch his leg, or give him sly smiles. It will make him crave you even more, but don’t let him touch until he proves just how much he wants you.
Dress up to tease him.
When you start feeling comfortable around the guy, you may feel like you need to stop wowing him, but the truth is, that’s how many women lose their men. He was probably attracted to you in the first place because of your appearance, and you should remind him every now and then that you’re a prize. The next time you go out, be a little extra so he will start drooling over you. You can even take pictures of yourself with his phone so he can find them when he gets home.
Have fun without him.
Show him that your life does not revolve around him. Go out with your friends and family and have a good time. Post pictures and videos of you on social media having fun. When he sees it, he’ll wish he was there and start thinking about how much fun he could have with you. You can look forward to an invite for a date soon when he sees how booked your schedule is.
Be full of surprises.
Being predictable can ruin relationships before they even begin. Be the girl that ensures he has a good time and is always willing to try new things. Show him how spontaneous you are by inviting him out on unique dates, or by wining and dining him! Surely he doesn’t expect to be sent flowers or get random gifts. They’ll mean more when he doesn’t expect them.
If he’s trying to play it cool, show him you can be colder. Put him in the friend zone till he is willing to show you how he feels. Treat him like everyone else. Invite him out on group hangouts, don’t stay over, don’t hug him too long, and don’t have sex with him. When he sees that he isn’t the only one viewing for your attention, he’ll step his game up.
Tell him how much you miss him.
When you think the time is right, and he’s shown signs of missing you like calling you to check up on you or texting you often, tell him how much you miss him. Guys love hearing that they are missed. Even though he clearly misses you, you saying this will make him actively think about it and crave you even more!
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