I’m An Opinionated Woman & IDGAF If That Scares Guys Off

I’ve never been one to shy away from voicing my opinions and I shouldn’t have to. In my dating life in particular, this has caused problems because way too many guys just can’t handle me. It’s why I’ve stayed single so long — I’m an opinionated woman and IDGAF if that scares guys off.

I want a guy who loves a strong woman.

Guys who are looking for a pushover don’t interest me. They’re weak AF and if they were real men, they wouldn’t hesitate or shy away from the challenge of dating and loving a woman with a strong mind of her own. If a guy thinks I’m “too opinionated” or has any other archaic opinions about me, he can beat it — he’s clearly not on my level.

I’m intelligent and proud of it.

I’m proud of the fact that I have more going for me than just a pretty face. I’m well-spoken and I’m proud of the things I’ve learned in life so I don’t hesitate to express my feelings about anything. Isn’t the whole point of life to be yourself and be proud of who you are?

Fact: strong women make amazing wives.

Sure, submissive and doting women may seem like the easy and peaceful road to take for weak men, but having a strong and badass woman that doesn’t hesitate to speak her mind is one you definitely want in your corner. Not only can I handle myself but I won’t back down from standing up for my partner either.

I’m sick of our outdated members of society — it’s 2016.

Women aren’t delicate creatures who need a guy’s guidance to live amazing, fulfilling lives — far from it. I’m proud to be someone who isn’t a product of an ideology that was born hundreds of years ago. I’m proud as hell to stand tall and use the voice that was given to me. It’s time for guys to get with the program.

I’m not fake about who I truly am.

I don’t believe in being a fake AF person just to appease a guy. If a guy does something to piss me off or says something totally uncalled for, I’ll be quick to put him in check. I have every right to do so. I’m not going to remain silent and allow myself to get walked all over by anyone. If that means it takes me longer to find a guy strong enough to date a woman like me, so be it.

I was given my voice for a reason.

I won’t stand idle and silent or avoid asserting my personality and opinions in an attempt to avoid offending someone — that’s not how women should be. I’m not an ignorant person and I’m open to the opinions of others, I just have some of my own as well. I was given a brain and a voice for a reason — I plan to use them.

Being quiet and submissive sounds boring AF to me.

I wouldn’t be who I am without my strong opinions and vivacious personality. It’s not my style to be quiet, shy and agreeable so I won’t pretend for a moment that I am. I’m not a fake person and I’ll never compromise who I am just to make myself more appealing to a guy.

Newsflash: I’m allowed to express how I feel.

I’ve never quite understood those guys who talk about opinionated women in a negative light. Why is it wrong for a woman to say how she feels? Why is it wrong for a woman to have a mind of her own? What else are we supposed to do with our lives — wait around for them to tell us? No thanks. The only guys who are offended by opinionated women are guys who don’t have their crap together themselves.

I don’t want a guy to think for me — I think for myself.

I’ll never be that girl who lets her guy speak for her — it’s just not who I am. I view relationships as two individuals who come together as partners, not a guy who takes over and controls who I am or who I’m allowed to be. I couldn’t give two craps about the guys who think I’m “too opinionated” because they’re not the right guys for me whatsoever.

The right guy will admire the things I have to say. 

I want to be with someone who gives me the freedom to be who I am and who is proud of the fact that I’m willing to voice how I feel without hesitation. After all, I’m looking for real and genuine love, not some sort of filler relationship just to be a part of something. I come first in my life and that’s why IDGAF if a guy is scared off by the fact that I’m an opinionated woman. I’m smart and it’s sexy.

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