Why I Love Lesbian Porn—And You Should Too

Lesbian porn has a special place in my heart—and in my browser history too. Some people think I’m only into it because I’m into women, but the truth is, my love of lesbian adult films has nothing to do with my sexuality.

Straight porn is geared towards men’s fantasies.

Every straight adult film caters to men’s needs, often via showing women with impeccable oral sex skills. Blowjobs are considered to be the main event and women are expected to get down on their knees and make it hot and messy. Yes, some straight porn has cunnilingus, but those scenes only last for a few seconds. Meanwhile, lesbian porn revolves around oral sex, fingering, and clitoral stimulation. The women in adult films know what they’re doing as well because they do them properly.

The warm-up in lesbian adult films is always hot.

Lesbian porn has this sensual, slow, and passionate vibe. It usually shows two gorgeous women who are taking good care of each other’s needs. It has lots of touching, making out, and erotic caressing. In short, there’s always time for good foreplay. You won’t easily find that in straight adult films because the phrase “nice and slow” is not really a part of dudes’ vocabulary. Sigh.

Straight porn is a bit unrealistic.

Men in straight adult films often have enormous erections and bulging muscles, which honestly turns me off. Yes, size matters, but a “monster-sized” penis disturbs me instead of making me horny. I mean, how am I supposed to take that?

More and more women are choosing lesbian porn.

According to Pornhub’s Year In Review, lesbian content was its most searched for term of 2017. In fact, it’s been their number one searched term worldwide for three years now. YouPorn, another adult website, found out that 63% of surveyed women watch porn on a weekly basis. Its most-watched categories are lesbian, romantic, and threesome porn. These staggering numbers mirror the fact that many women are into lesbian porn. I’m not alone!

Straight porn doesn’t treat women right.

Women in porn always have to do all the hard work, like taking big penises, enduring long pounding sessions, and fetishes of all shapes and sizes. The guy only gives orders and enjoys the experience. Plus, the positions are quite repetitive because they’re always aiming to show the sexual body parts such as the breasts, butt, and female genitals.

Lesbian porn helps with orgasms and fantasies.

Since lesbian porn is a lot gentler than the straight variety, it’s easier for me to imagine myself in that situation. This is super useful when I just need a little “me time”. In addition, lesbian porn is also a part of my fantasies. When I’m in bed with my partner, I like to think about those steamy lesbian clips I watched. This intensifies the sexual experience and helps me achieve awesome orgasms.

There’s less anal intercourse in lesbian porn.

Butt play has been going mainstream these days, but it never appealed to me. Everyone’s body is different and it just happens that mine can’t take anal sex. Unfortunately, butt sex is usually present in straight porn, so I avoid it altogether. Why would I watch something that I don’t find pleasurable in real life?

Straight porn can be too rough.

Hard and rough scenes are normal in straight adult films. I have zero problems with choking or heavy thrusting because I know that some women like them, but when I’m hot and bothered, those scenes don’t really help me. I always end up looking at the woman’s face and I can tell right away that she isn’t into it.

Lesbian porn normalizes sex toys.

Women who use sex toys are usually seen as lonely or sexually deviant individuals. That’s not always true, though.  Many people are starting to incorporate sex toys into their own sex life, even the straight couples. Lesbian porn normalizes sex toys by showing couples using dildos and vibrators. Also, if you don’t know how to use a certain toy, you can always count on lesbian porn.

When used well, lesbian porn can teach men about giving real pleasure.

Let’s face it—not all men know how to properly please a woman, and one of the reasons is that a lot of guys watch straight porn. In fact, most men learn about sex and pleasure by watching them. This is where lesbian films come in. They show what women want and how to give it to them. If you’re not satisfied with your boyfriend’s bedroom skills and you have to watch lesbian porn to get off, I suggest you go upfront with your guy about it. Faking your orgasms won’t help him know your body well.

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