Signs He Thinks You’re “The One” For Him, According To A Guy

In a perfect world, your guy would tell you exactly what he’s thinking all of the time, for better or worse. However, this is not a perfect world and most guys are reluctant to share their true feelings with anyone, let alone their partners. Even when he’s fond of you and thinks you’re the one for him, he won’t always come out and say it. To be fair, some guys don’t always recognize that they feel this way right away. Luckily, his actions never lie. Here are some signs to watch out for.

He’s attentive to your needs.

All good partners should be attentive to the other person’s needs, but when guys are serious about someone, they take this to a whole new level. They pay close enough attention to you to understand your needs, your moods, and what you want from them. Even good boyfriends aren’t necessarily at that level. If your boyfriend thinks that you could be his forever person, he’ll be extra attentive and do all of the little things that show how much he cares.

He shares his feelings.

As mentioned, you may not always get the full story when it comes to a guy sharing how he feels, but one who’s serious will be a little more willing to open up in this way. To be fair, it’ll sometimes be via actions rather than words. However, he’ll have no problem finding some way to let you know how much he cares about you. In other words, there will be no games and you’ll never be left wondering where you stand with him.

You’re always his plus-one.

If there is any special event going on, especially involving his friends or family, you’re always invited. You don’t have to ask or wonder because he’ll make it clear that he always wants you around. This is a clear sign that you’re fully entrenched in his life and that you will be for a long time to come. Deep down, he knows that you’re there to stay, and so he wants you involved in every aspect of his life.

He tells you everything.

You know that you’re the one for him when he trusts you enough to open up. You may have noticed that this isn’t easy for most guys. That means that when he does it, it’s a big deal. This is because he trusts you, and if you have that trust, he’ll have no problem staying with you for a long time. In other words, the more he opens up, the closer you are to becoming “the one.”

He plans for the future.

This is undoubtedly one of the biggest signs he thinks you’re the one for him. I’m not talking about a special date in a few weeks or even a vacation in a couple of months but more long-term. When he talks about his future and puts you in it, he’s at least considered you being “the one.” Any type of mention of the two of you having a life together in the distant future is a sign that he’s imagined what that would be like and is at least open to the possibility.

He always wants to be around you.

It’s not always about going on romantic dates or doing things that you know he likes. Sometimes the key to seeing if a guy is serious about you is him just being happy to do mundane things with you around. If you think about it, you have to be comfortable with this to be happy in a long-term relationship. Sometimes a quiet evening at home during nothing special can tell you if he’s truly happy with you and thinks of you as “the one.”

He supports your goals and ambitions.

Most of us have goals or ambitions that are more long-term than short-term. How a guy feels about these can tell you a lot. If he’s supportive of them and wants to be around you to help, that says a lot. Obviously, it means that he can envision himself with you long-term. It also means that he’s putting you first. Most guys don’t do this unless they think that you might be “the one.”

He sticks around during rough times.

You can always tell a lot about how a guy views a relationship by how he reacts when things aren’t going that well. Some will start to doubt the relationship or they’ll use it as a chance to run away from it. But if he tries to solve the problem and work through it rather than run away, you know he’s serious about you. He won’t be so quick to give up if he thinks you might be “the one.” We all know there will be bumps along the way, and you can tell a lot by how a guy reacts in those moments. If you’re looking for signs he thinks you’re the one, this is a biggie.

He’s there when you need him.

Perhaps more than anything, this is what people need in a long-term partner. If you’re “the one,” a guy will always be there when you need him. In fact, he’ll want to be there when you need him. Not all guys are intent on being your support system or a shoulder to cry on if they aren’t convinced that you’re right for them.

He says “we.”

It’s one little word but it means so much. A lot of guys are mostly focused on themselves. It takes a long time until they get to the point of thinking about other people first or thinking about themselves as being part of a couple. By the time this happens, most guys assume that they’ve found “the one.” If you notice that a guy is referring to the two of you as “we” on a regular basis, it should be clear what he’s thinking.

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