What’s A Blended Orgasm And How Can You Have One?

You might’ve heard about the blended orgasm before but if not, here’s a quick crash course: it’s when you have a G-spot and clitoral orgasm simultaneously and apparently, it can blow your mind. Here’s what you need to know about making it happen for you.

It’s basically a symphony of pleasure. As you probably know, it’s often easier to have a clitoral orgasm, whereas a G-spot orgasm takes time to develop. It’s that difference between the two that makes a blended orgasm so awesome. By stimulating both spots at the same time, you get the best of both worlds: the quick and satisfying pleasure of C-spot stimulation and the slow burn that leads to a big G-spot orgasm.

It can last… and last. The blended orgasm can last anything from one minute to 15 minutes. Yes, you read that right! While standard orgasms are amazing in and of themselves, blended orgasms are a whole other world.

First, know thyself. Before you think of trying to reach a blended orgasm during your next sex session with your partner, do some self-discovery. Just because you’re stimulating both the G-spot and C-spot, it doesn’t mean that you’re going to have a blended orgasm easily. It helps to explore your body to find the best path to achieving it. After all, no one knows your body like you do.

Get ready to sweat. A blended orgasm takes time and practice, so don’t be disheartened if it doesn’t work for you right away. You’ll be missing out if you give up on it! Keep trying because even if you fail, you’ll probably still get a regular orgasm out of it and those are pretty great too.

Get into the groove. As with any sex, you need to be in the right position for the best stimulation. There are certain positions that will help you achieve a blended orgasm more than others. One is missionary, but try to elevate your lower body so that your partner comes into contact with your clitoris during thrusts. Another is the woman-on-top position. It’s great because it helps you to control the speed and find the right angle so that you’re pleasured in the right spots.

Use a cheatsheet. There are ways to cut a few corners to help you achieve a blended orgasm. One of these is to bring sex toys and vibrators into the bedroom! These are great for self-exploration and sex with a partner because they enable you to pleasure more than one spot on your body at the same time, making things easier (especially if your hand’s getting tired).

Don’t rush the sex. If your partner’s always speeding through sex, the dude needs to slow TF down! You can’t rush through sex and expect a blended orgasm. What makes it so powerful is delaying it for as long as possible.

Make things interesting. Just because you know you have to stimulate your G-spot and C-spot, it doesn’t mean you need to be too vanilla about this. Find new and juicy ways to feel pleasure. Let your partner stimulate both spots in different ways, such as by touching your clitoris with his fingers during sexual penetration or giving you oral sex while fingering your G-spot. The options are endless!

Can’t experience G-spot orgasms? It doesn’t matter. If you’ve never had a G-spot orgasm, you’re not alone—70 percent of women don’t experience them. Before you think this means blended orgasms aren’t for you, guess again. By stimulating your G-spot at the same time as your clitoris, you increase your overall pleasure.

Go back to the drawing board. Sometimes you might find that you and your partner have to stop having sex and go back to foreplay to build up that climax properly so that a blended orgasm will feel so amazing. Yup, that means that trying to get there during a quickie isn’t going to do you any favors.

Foreplay is the MVP. You can’t be lazy about foreplay and expect a blended orgasm. It’s not going to happen. The whole idea of foreplay is to get into the mood, feel pleasure, and start building up to greater pleasure. But who knows? You might experience a blended orgasm from foreplay alone, so make sure your partner’s ready to try it out.

Don’t neglect the other spots. You have loads of erogenous zones all over your body that feel good when touched during sex. Maybe it’s your thighs or shoulders or your butt even. Bring these into the blended orgasm so that you really create an all-body experience that blows your mind.

Communicate with your partner. You can’t just expect him to know how to stimulate both your G-spot and clitoris—hell, some guys don’t even know how to make you orgasm from one! Now’s not the time to be quiet and hope he’ll do something right. You need to talk to him about what works and what doesn’t when it comes to touch, pressure, speed, and positions so that both your G-spot and C-spot are on fire.

De-stress before entering the bedroom. Stress and good sex are enemies. Don’t stress too much about achieving a blended orgasm as this will prevent you from experiencing one. Communicate about your needs, try different things, and bring toys into the bedroom if you feel it’ll help, but focus on having fun. There’s no way you can go wrong if you do—even if you don’t have a blended orgasm, you’ll be guaranteed of having great sexual satisfaction, and that’s the most important thing.

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