Why A Man With A Bigger Penis Isn’t That Great After All

Sure, size matters, but bigger doesn’t always mean better. It all depends on the guy attached to the bits, and how compatible he is with you. You might think you want a guy who’s packing a little extra, but if he doesn’t know how to use it, it’s pretty much wasted.

  1. Some guys with huge bits think that’s all it takes.These guys obviously don’t understand the female anatomy if they think all we need is big bits in order to have multiple enjoyment. Most women would take an average sized guy who knows what he’s doing over a guy with a monster who doesn’t seem to know (or care) where the different parts of a woman are.
  2. He might not have had to develop his mouth skills.A guy with less to offer in the size department has probably had to find ways to compensate. For most guys that means perfecting the beginning stages of intimacy and mouth skills. But if he relies on his bits to do all the work, he probably hasn’t gotten much practice in other areas.
  3. Some positions won’t work. With doggy for example, big bits can feel even bigger, which might not be what you want. You’ll have to stick to a few positions that are most comfortable and if doggy used to be your favorite, you’re out of luck.
  4. Sometimes it just won’t fit.Just like every guy has a different sized parts, every woman has a different sized parts too. Some puzzle pieces just don’t fit together without forcing them, and that’s not fun for anybody.
  5. You can’t do it for as long.It can get uncomfortable after awhile if a guy is bigger than average. And since it takes women longer to come than men, getting to that happy ending might not be in the cards a lot of the time.
  6. You need a couple days to recover.Not that it’s necessarily the worst thing to still feel the effects of having made love last night, but if you’re the type of person who likes to get some every day, a guy with a bigger package might make that less feasible.
  7. Butt sex is out of the question. If butt sex is something you enjoy every once in a while, you might have to rethink that if your guy is on the larger side. Or at the very least, spend a lot more time working up to it.
  8. Blow jobs are uncomfortable. Giving a BJ to a smaller guy is a lot easier in general. You can do that deep throat thing they like without gagging, and your jaw doesn’t start to hurt after a couple minutes. A big package might look appealing, but once you try to get it in your mouth, you realize that it’s easier said than done.
  9. Quickies don’t really happen.You’re going to need a lot of foreplay before there’s hope of that thing getting anywhere near your body. That means there probably isn’t time for a quickie before work, unless you’re going to be generous with the lube.
  10. If you get accustomed to a big one, going back to an average sized one is disappointing.So you’ve finally gotten to the point where you’re comfortable with his size, and you can do most of the things you want to do, and then you break up. Chances are, the next guy you sleep with isn’t going to be so big, and then you’ll have to learn to love an average sized package again.
By day, Courtney is a digital marketing copywriter living in Toronto, Canada. By night, she's a freelance lifestyle writer who, in addition to Bolde.com, contributes regularly to AmongMen.ca, IN Magazine, and SheBlogs Canada. Want to chat about relationships, Stephen King or your favorite true crime podcast/documentary/book? She's on Twitter @courtooo.