You Should Be Watching More Porn – Here’s Why

Watching sex on the internet gets a bad wrap. A lot of women downright hate it without having ever watched it and denounce it as smut. That’s their loss. Instead of viewing watching sex online as a threat to your relationship or femininity, it should be embraced. Watching sex on the internet can be as liberating for women as it is for men and you can choose exactly what you want to watch. Sure, it’s not for everyone, but it’s worth giving it a try and seeing if you find something you like – here’s why.

It lets you indulge your fantasies.

Maybe there’s a little part of you that would want to engage in a particular sexual activity but doing it in reality isn’t appealing (or possible). Not only will watching sex online allow you to have that fantasy, it’ll open your imagination up to new ones.

You can hook up… with yourself.

Thanks to technology, there are a million ways to hook up with someone when you’re single. But just because they’re available doesn’t mean it’s always safe or a good idea to use them. Instead of jumping in the sack with someone you don’t know, you can grab your laptop and enjoy yourself with as many different 2-D partners as you’d like.

It spices up your real sex life.

Watching sex on the internet either separately or together can give you new ideas or help spark your imagination on how to spice up your next sexual romp. With sex online, there’s always something new out there you’ve never seen.

You’ll learn some new tricks.

While some sex purely exists for masturbatory value and wouldn’t be recommended for us civilians, there is definitely some sex online that you can learn from. Feel like your guy isn’t going bananas when you give him oral? Try watching a few sex stars do it- they’re pros for a reason. Take notes on their positions, their hands, etc. and give their techniques a try. Guys, PLEASE do this as well.

It helps you feel less alone.

Have you ever had a sexual fantasy that makes you feel like total freak that would be banished to an island of sex-crazed weirdoes if you ever shared it with anybody? The best part about watching sex online is there is literally sex for everyone. If you’ve imagined a scenario, someone has already made a sex category for it. You never have to feel like you are the only one with a particular sexual desire, especially if it’s a little outside of the box.

You can be “weird” safely.

Just because you happen to be turned on by something considered out of the ordinary sexually doesn’t mean there’s something weird about you as a person. Watching sex online is all about exploring fantasies that probably never even knew you had. Sometimes we end up right clicking on something out of curiosity or boredom or in the moment, but so what? Your preference doesn’t define you. What turns you on and gets you off one day may not work the next and it’s all about what gets you off in the moment.

The stigma is going away.

Of course watching sex online will never fully be mainstream, but it’s crossing over more than it ever has. Remember when Sasha Grey had a recurring role on Entourage? It’s becoming more socially acceptable to publicly admit that you watch and enjoy sex online. While you probably shouldn’t group text your friends a link to a video of the hot new sex star you found (ahem, Tyler Nixon), you can take comfort in the fact that if people find out that you watch sex online you won’t be shamed into wearing a scarlet dildo on your outfit for the rest of your life.

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