10 Amazing Things That Happen When You Find Your Soulmate

10 Amazing Things That Happen When You Find Your Soulmate ©iStock/Jovanmandic

Some people will spend their entire lifetimes searching for their soulmates. If you’ve already found yours, you should consider yourself lucky. After all, dating him should be the highlight of your every day. Here are a few spectacular things that happen when you date your soulmate:

  1. You like yourself more. If a man as amazing as your boyfriend loves you, then you must really be a catch. Even though you liked yourself before you met him, you have a new-found appreciation for how awesome you are now that he’s in the picture.
  2. You stop considering your other options. Sure, you’ll still stare at men with nice asses, but you won’t think about approaching them to start a conversation. You know that there isn’t anyone out there that could make you happier than the man you’re already dating.
  3. You think of the future differently. When you visualize your future home, you take into account the fact that your boyfriend wants to live in the south. It’s not an area you would’ve considered before, but now it is, because you’re thinking about “our” future instead of “your” future.
  4. You have a standing date. It doesn’t matter if he hates the idea of seeing a ballet, because he’ll still go to see Swan Lake with you. That means you’ll never have to worry about finding a friend to drag with you again.
  5. You experience new things. He’s not the only one who will agree to go on dates he’s not interested in. You’ll go where he wants if he asks you nicely, and you might even end up liking it!
  6. You become the person you want to be. Haven’t you heard that couples that have been dating for a long time start acting similar? Over time, you’ll start to develop all of those personality traits that you admire in your partner, and will become a better person because of it.
  7. You don’t have doubts. Even if you two have a rough fight, you won’t worry about the possibility of breaking up. You know you two are together for the long haul and can fix any problem that pops up.
  8. You fit into a new family. The people closest to him are going to love you as much as he does. That’s why you’ll end up with a second family that will always be there for you.
  9. You have someone to share secrets with. You can tell him anything about yourself or your friends, and you won’t have to worry about the gossip being spread around. You can trust him one-hundred percent.
  10.  You feel hopeful. You should be a lot more optimistic about your future when you have your soulmate by your side. Even if everything else in your world falls apart, at least you’ll still have him.
Holly Riordan is a writer from Long Island, New York who has authored several science fiction and horror books. A graduate of Stony Brook University, she has spent nearly a decade writing for publications including Thought Catalog, Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, and more. You can find her on Instagram @hollyrio and Twitter @hollyyrio.