Just because you’re single doesn’t mean you’re sitting around feeling sorry for yourself for not having a boyfriend, nor are you desperate to find one anytime soon. You’re open to finding love, but until it happens, you’re not missing out on anything life has to offer. Here are 10 habits of single women who are bossing life every single day:
- You let yourself be consumed by your passions. Hobbies are one thing, but you’re making the most of life because you’re truly in love with so many things about life, and you happily let those passions consume you. Who says you need romantic love to feel fulfilled and enriched in life? Not you
- You find the joy in every day. You’re happy with small conversations with the person in front of you in line for your morning coffee. You love your job and and come home ready for a rewarding night of relaxation because you’ve earned it. Whether it’s by yourself with Netflix, or a low key dinner party with friends, you find joy in even the smallest moments.
- You nurture your friendships and family bonds. It doesn’t matter that you don’t have a boyfriend because you already have the love of your friends and family. You invest real time and energy in those relationships not only because you’ve got the time, but because you know even when love comes along, you need something outside of it.
- You make real life plans for yourself without anyone else in mind. You’ve got an idea of where you’d like to live, what you’d like to do in your career long term, and how you want to enrich your life. You don’t hold yourself back from doing anything just because you’re doing it solo, and you celebrate every milestone, big and small.
- You follow a fulfilling daily ritual. Your daily rituals help you get stuff done, and you follow them religiously. You feel better for doing so because having healthy habits starts with having a day-to-day action plan. You wake up every day ready to embrace whatever lies ahead and excited to take on the world.
- You’re grateful AF for everything you have. So you don’t wake up to someone next to you who makes you coffee and kisses you on his way out the door to work, but you really don’t give a f*ck because you’ve got your own affirmations. You’re completely grateful for everything you have in life not just because it makes you happy, but because you’ve done it all yourself.
- You skip the BS. You’re a no nonsense woman and you have zero time to waste on nonsense that will only hold you back. If you date a crappy guy, you cut him loose. If you face annoying minor challenges, you deal with them like a boss. You don’t have time to complain about the minor setbacks — you’re busy focusing on the bigger picture instead.
- You strive for balance. Single women who are living happy and full lives are living in a balanced way. You might not make it to the gym every day, but you feed yourself and your soul with things that make you feel awesome and alive. You know that you’re nothing without your health, and no matter how busy you get, you make maintaining it a priority.
- You love even without love. You don’t need a man to feel love in your life — you already have it. You have it in your friendships, in your family, in your passions, and most importantly, you have love for yourself.
- You validate yourself rather than looking for it from others. You might not have a fairy tale romance, a ring on your finger, or someone to love and call your soulmate just yet, but you’re not stressing it. You lives your life to the fullest extent because you’re the boss.