There’s no better feeling than loving someone and knowing it’s reciprocated. Of course, it’s normal to question whether the guy you’re dating is really on the same page. After all, anyone can say those three little words, but actually backing them up with actions is a whole different ball game. If you’re ever in doubt, here are some of the most obvious gestures of love he should be making.
- Saying sorry (and meaning it) This is one of the biggest love gestures in any kind of relationship, romantic or platonic. Apologizing for our mistakes is a simple thing on the surface, but it could make or break a relationship. A man who loves you for real won’t hesitate to say he’s sorry when he screws up as he knows how important it is. He’ll never want to hurt you, and if he does so unintentionally, he won’t be at peace. He’ll do whatever it takes to make up for his mistakes and bring back your smile.
- Spending quality time with you Who doesn’t like it when a guy creates time to be with them? Being with your guy feels so special that you always ensure to carve out time for him no matter how busy or hectic life gets. If you can find a guy who reciprocates your effort, you’re lucky. A guy who’s always showing up to be with you isn’t to be taken for granted. A guy who sacrifices his time and resources to be with you is one who loves you for real. If he chooses to be with you instead of watching football with his friends, you need no other signs or gestures to know that he loves you seriously.
- Helping you with house chores Whether it’s doing the dishes, folding laundry, or making breakfast for the two of you, that’s pure love. A guy who loves you for real understands that he needs to pull his weight and that you also need to chill sometimes. So, he takes it upon himself to help with house chores whenever he can. You don’t even need to ask for help. He knows what needs to be done and does it without grumbling.
- Appreciating you Does he ever tell you how lucky he is to have you? Does he boast about you and shower you with praises in front of friends and family? If he can’t stop saying how thankful he is to have you and is always appreciating the little things you do for him, there’s no doubt that he really loves you.
- Checking in with you often When you’re in a long-distance relationship, it’s normal to call and text each other from time to time. But when you live together, some people only talk when they get home. However, guy who really loves you will check on you during the day just to say hi and see how your day is going. He’ll be missing you and looking forward to seeing you in the evening even if you just saw each other a few hours ago. How lovely is that?
- Writing random love notes Dropping you sweet and random love notes is not only romantic but is also one of the most romantic gestures of love in existence. It’s such a simple thing that speaks volumes about your place in his heart. He might leave a sweet note on the dining table, on the kitchen countertops, or, sneak the note into your handbag. This is a man who is tirelessly trying to make your love story a success. You’ve got a keeper on your hands.
- Surprising you from time to time Don’t we all love nice surprises? Yet, only a guy who loves you for real will put in the work to set up a good surprise. Even if it’s just a bouquet of flowers at your place of work or making you a special meal on an ordinary day, it’s the effort that counts. Going the extra mile just to see you happy shows how much he cherishes you.
- Telling you that you’re beautiful Nothing feels better than someone telling you how beautiful you’re in the mid of a deep conversation or when you are just walking down the street. It’s even sweeter if the words are accompanied by a random hot kiss. It shows how deeply he feels about you and he isn’t ashamed of it.
- Introducing you to his family Men will only introduce you to their family if they really love and intend to have a long-term relationship with you. Otherwise, if he’s just looking for something casual (which is okay if it’s mutual), he’ll keep the two entirely separate. If your guy already introduced you to his family, he’s not playing games with you. He loves you and wants you to be part of his family.
- Buying you a period care package Because periods can be hella painful, a guy who really loves you will try to make this period as comfortable as possible. He’ll get you a well-thought care package with all the essentials and some goodies to make you smile. He’ll rub your back, cook for you, and help in all ways that he can to make sure that you don’t feel alone. Do you think a man who doesn’t love you would care about your periods? It’s very unlikely.
