Getting vocal about what you want when sleeping with someone to get your guy going can be a little difficult if you don’t know where to start. But your words can be just as powerful as your touch when you two are getting down and dirty, so it’s time to speak up. In case you need some pointers, here are 10 things he’d probably love to hear in the heat of the moment:
“I need you now.”
This one is simple yet effective. When you tell your partner that you can’t stand another minute without him as close to you as possible, it really gets him revved up and ready to take you to the limit.
“You really turn me on.”
When you tell him how turned on you are by him, it gets him even more hyped up, and when he hears the actual words, he automatically starts thinking about your lady parts and how good they feel.
“Take me however you want.”
If you give him the reigns to control what kind of encounter you’ll be having, he’ll be so enthusiastic and turned on that you trust him to do you right. You’ll both be getting off when he feels like he’s in control.
Or, “Yes, right there!” while moaning and even screaming his name. Making noise and confirming that you’re enjoying yourself will drive him crazy with pleasure because it’s a confirmation that you too are feeling pretty damn good. Guys really get off when they know their lady is having as much fun as they are.
When you’re trying to get out of your clothes and getting ready for the act, tell him to rip whatever piece of clothing you’re struggling with right off your body. This will get the testosterone flowing because he knows how much you want him and how strong he has to be to physically rip the clothes right off of you. It sounds silly, but it does actually work.
“You’re so big.”
Guys tend to have a complex when it comes to the size of their member. If you tell him how big he feels or how firm, he’s going to grow (and so will his ego).
“I’ve been so bad.”
This goes hand in hand with dominant fantasies, but even without that type of exploration, your guy hearing you say how naughty you are or want to be with him will get him revved up and ready to go.
“I want you to come on me.”
For some reason, guys just love coming on their partners. Whether it be on your chest, stomach or even your face — being able to go all over you is a serious turn on. When he thinks you’re into it too, he’s going to want to get there that much faster.
“Let’s get dirty.”
When you tell your partner how dirty he is or how dirty you are and want to get with him, it’s a guarantee he’ll be all in. There’s just something about this kind of intimacy that gets him going.
“Do you want me to touch myself?”
Asking a guy if he wants to watch you satisfy yourself is like asking a dog if they want a treat. He definitely does, and he’ll be that much hotter after watching you get yourself going for him.
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