Nine times out of 10, he’s already in the mood to make love – he just doesn’t know that you are. But for those rare occasions when he’s not or you just aren’t sure, here are 10 ways to get him hot and bothered. After all, us ladies have to get ours too.
With affection, obviously, but literally as well. Hop in unexpectedly when he’s washing off and things will get steamy in no time.
Spell it out for him.
If you aren’t quite bold enough to enter someone’s shower uninvited, sneak into the bathroom while he’s rinsing off and use the steam on the mirror to leave him a little message like “Don’t bother getting dressed, I’m waiting for you in the bedroom.”
Start the morning off with a little unsolicited mouth action. The only thing a guy likes more than that is not having to ask for it
Put on a steamy video.
He’s probably watching it anyway to get himself in the mood, but it’ll turn him on even more if you watch it with him. Just make sure it’s in his preferred genre, and nothing too far out of your wheelhouse, unless you are in the mood to try something new. And then, by all means…
Take his hand.
Hand holding is sweet, but it’s probably not going to give him those sensations down below. Grab his hand and put it on the spot he likes best… legs, chest, backside… He’s already told you a million times what parts of you he most enjoys, so gently guide his hands there.
Show off the goods.
If subtlety is your thing, throw on his old t-shirt with nothing under it. If you’re a little more brazen, just walk around the house with no clothes on. It won’t take long before he’s chasing you into bed.
While you’re watching TV and telling each other about your days, slip some naughty talk into the conversation. Tell him how so-and-so who he doesn’t know was out sick today so you had to cover for them, and then pique his interest by nonchalantly mentioning how you want him to slam you up against the wall. It might take his mind a few seconds to catch up, but his body will instantly snap into action.
Send him suggestive messages.
Do this when he’s at work so he’ll be thinking about you, and what he is going to do to you when he gets home, the rest of the day.
Incorporate his interests.
You know he can’t resist his sweet tooth, so slather yourself in chocolate to make yourself even more irresistible to him. If you’re looking for a less messy scenario, there’s always the princess Leia approach. Whatever it is, he will be sure to show you his appreciation for your extra efforts.
Try any of these items on the list, and once you’ve succeeded in getting him going, back off a bit and play hard to get. Not for long, just long enough to pique his interest even more.
Just knowing you are in the mood should put him in the mood, so go about letting him know in whatever way feels natural and you are guaranteed a good time had by all.
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