12 Reasons To Date The Girl Who Never Dates

12 Reasons To Date The Girl Who Never Dates

It sounds crazy, but the girl who doesn’t date might just be the best one you’ll find — if you can get her to go out with you, that is! She isn’t worried about finding a man — she has her own amazing, full life, and that’s exactly what you want in a woman. She won’t be easy, but this is why she’s worth the extra effort:

  1. She’s totally independent. The reason she doesn’t date is that she has her own wonderful life to live. She doesn’t need a man to complete her. She does her own thing and she’s perfectly fine with it. Nothing is more attractive than a woman who’s comfortable in her own skin living life on her terms.
  2. She’s confident in who she is and what she does. Some girls date because they need validation. They want a constant reminder that men are still attracted to them, even if they aren’t that interested in the guys themselves. This girl doesn’t mess with all that. She owns what she’s got going on, regardless of whether she’s single or not.
  3. She’s self-sufficient and damn proud of it. This is important. She’s not going out to dinner with randoms so she can get free food. She’s not with a boyfriend just so he can pay her bills. This badass woman pays her own way and she works for what she has. Take notice, because you don’t want some superficial gold digger in your life.
  4. She knows herself inside out. A girl who doesn’t date makes that choice for a reason. Either she’s not in a good place emotionally, she’s too busy, or that’s not what she needs in her life right now. Be the guy who changes her mind. It won’t be an easy task, but you want to end up with a woman who’s in touch with herself. It’ll make her much more likely to understand you, as well.
  5. She’s interesting and well-rounded. A girl who’s too busy and focused on other things to date has a lot going on. You’ll never get bored talking to her. She’s always taking on new interests and putting herself out there. That’s why she doesn’t have time for silly dates with inconsequential men. She saves her time for what’s important to her, and your challenge is to make that you.
  6. She’s one-of-a-kind. Being a girl who never dates is unique in itself. She lives on a different wavelength from most women. Her priorities set her apart and she never compromises who she is for anyone. You’ll find yourself fascinated by her. The only way to figure out what makes her tick is to commit to winning her heart.
  7. She doesn’t play games. Part of the reason she gave up dating is that she was sick of all the games. If she likes you, you’ll know. If she doesn’t, she’s gone. End of story. She’d rather be honest than worry about hurting someone’s feelings or waste energy with trivial and immature nonsense.
  8. She’ll call you on your stuff. Maybe you don’t like the sound of that, but it’s actually good for you. You don’t want to be with a woman who lets you get away with everything. You want a partner who holds you accountable and helps you to be better. She doesn’t date because too many men couldn’t handle it and she got tired of their insecurity.
  9. She’s fierce and unapologetic. This girl is a firebrand. She doesn’t care if people think she’s weird for refusing to date. She doesn’t care what anyone thinks of her, period, including guys. She won’t act like someone she isn’t just to attract a man. This is exactly the kind of woman you want in your corner permanently.
  10. She lets you know how she feels. A lot of women play the passive-aggressive card, suddenly blowing up on their clueless boyfriends out of nowhere. Not this girl. She’s honest and forthcoming in a way that’s unusually brave. Men aren’t used to women who are blunt and she got tired of their reactions. It’s easier to spend her time with people who appreciate her.
  11. She’ll give you the best love. When you finally win her over, it’s so worth it. This girl has a wealth of love to give. The fact that she’s so selective about how she distributes it makes it even more precious. She hasn’t been wasting it on guys who don’t give a damn. She’s kept it safe for herself and the people in her life who deserve it.
  12. She’ll make you feel like the luckiest person alive. Once you’ve earned her love, respect, and trust, you will have the relationship you always wanted. As a quality man who desires a quality woman, you will be more than rewarded. Sure, you could’ve had one of those dime-a-dozen chicks, but the effort to get this woman was worth every ounce of struggle. You understood why she wasn’t always dating around, and you end up reaping the benefits.
A former actress who has always loved the art of the written word, Amy is excited to be here sharing her stories! She hopes that they resonate with you or at the very least make you chuckle a bit. She just completed her first novel, and is also a contributor for Elite Daily, Dirty & Thirty, and The Indie Chicks.