12 Signs Your Partner’s Showing Up For You And Your Relationship

Your partner shows up for you in so many ways. They do this because they really love and appreciate you. They want your relationship to work so they’re willing to do their part. Showing up is all about emotionally availability, presence, and doing things that show how much they care. Here are 12 signs that your partner proves themselves every single day:

1. They call/text regularly. This should be an obvious one, right? Unfortunately, not all people are lucky enough to have partners who call and text on a regular basis. However, your partner shows you they love you by being sure to always text you before you go to sleep and by calling to ask how your day was. They always call and text regularly, leaving you feeling as important as you are.
2. They make plenty of time for you. One of the biggest ways your lover can show up for you is by making you a priority in their life. To do so, they never fail to set aside time in their schedule to see you. You can tell how important you are to them because they always make sure to set a certain amount of time aside for you to be a part of their life. They don’t completely clear their schedule because they have boundaries.
3. They set boundaries. You know the metaphor of an oxygen mask? They need to put theirs on before they put yours on. It’s important that your partner shows up for themselves, too. This way they can love themselves and have a well of love to give to you. Because of this, it’s crucial that they’re honest about where they’re at with both of you. For example, if you’re hanging out with each other too much for their schedule, they’ll be sure to let you know
4. They’re regularly willing to compromise. Even though they have good boundaries, they’re also willing to compromise with you. They’re able to be flexible, allowing both of you to get a little bit of what you want. Like that your coworker’s partner that you’re a bit jealous of—you know the jealousy is irrational, but your partner lets you come to work events, anyway, so that you’ll feel better. They’re willing to shift things around for you because you’re worth it. 
5. They’re there when they say they’ll be. Your partner’s showing up for you when you can count on them to be somewhere they say they will. If you have a family party that neither of you is all that thrilled to go to, you can bet that your partner will still be there. They aren’t one to flake out or make excuses—they actually show up. 
6. They know what’s important to you. Your partner knows that it really matters that they’re on time. They’re not always the best at doing so, but because it’s important to you they adjust to what you need. They know all of your quirks—what makes you upset and what makes you happy. They do their best to make sure they’re meeting your needs while still maintaining their own boundaries.
7. They’re around on your hard days. One of the most significant ways that your partner shows you how much you mean to them is that they’re not just there on the good days. They also are present on those days where you’re having a hard time getting out of bed. They’re right there with you, encouraging you to do the best you can, even when it isn’t always pretty.
8. They’re one of your biggest cheerleaders. On your bad days and your good, your lover cheers you on. They believe that you’re capable of so much and they’re happy to tell you all day long. They’re the first ones there to celebrate when you get good news at work. They’re also there to encourage you to do better when you can.
9. They express all of their emotions. When the two of you are having a conversation, especially the more difficult ones, your partner puts their emotions on the table. They definitely show up for you because they’re able to be vulnerable, sharing what’s really going on. This brings the two of you closer and builds a stronger relationship. It also shows you that you’re worth being honest with. 
10. They’re there for the difficult conversations. Just like on your hard days, your partner’s willing to show up for the difficult conversations that need to be had. You two had a fight or are having a disagreement about something and you need to chat face-to-face about it. Your partner shows up with an open-mind and a calm demeanor, ready to hear what you have to say and work things out.
11. They’re present when you two are together. When you’re talking to your lover, they look you in the eyes. Their body language says “I’m listening!” and their responses make it clear that they’re there with you. This is a big indication that they’re showing up for you because they’re saying without their words “you’re important enough to pay attention to.”
12. They’re willing to make sacrifices. Their excessive pot smoking habit bothers you a lot, so your partner has agreed to never be high around you. They’d like to smoke whenever the heck they want, but they’re willing to make big sacrifices since the relationship is important to them.