15 Feelings Any Guy Worth Dating Will Make You Experience

Not every guy you date will be worthy of you. You’ll have some total douchebags and just when you think it can’t possibly get any worse, you’ll meet an even bigger jerks. It’s just how the whole dating process goes. But if you hold out long enough, weed through the crap — and there’s a lot of it out there —  you’ll find a guy worth dating who is totally deserving of you and he’ll make you feel things that no other man has ever made you feel.

  1. He’ll make you feel secure. You will never doubt his intentions or have suspicions when he’s not around.
  2. He’ll make you feel like you’re the most beautiful women in the room. Not just because you are (obviously!), but because he honestly believes it.
  3. He’ll make you feel loved. You’ll never have to question his love for you because he won’t just tell you, but show you. You won’t want for affection.
  4. He’ll make you feel fascinating and funny. He’ll always laugh at your jokes, even the ones where you forget the punchline, and will always be in awe of whatever tales you have to tell.
  5. He’ll make you feel like you’re number one. Even when he’s swamped with work or family drama, he’ll still be able to make you feel like you’re his top priority.
  6. He’ll make you feel sexy. You may be bloated and PMSing so hard, but he’ll still make you feel irresistible.
  7. He’ll make you feel supported. You’ll always know that you have a partner, as well as a lover and best friend. Because of this, you’ll never second-guess your decisions.
  8. He’ll make you feel challenged. He’ll always give you a run for your money with a healthy debate or some banter that might get mildly heated. (Make up sex!)
  9. He’ll make you feel important. No matter where you are or who you’re with, he’ll always make sure you know that you’re important.
  10. He’ll make sure you never feel left out. Even if you’re at some event where you don’t know anyone, he’ll go out of his way to make you feel like you’re part of the conversation.
  11. He’ll make you feel confident. Not just in yourself, but in your future goals and even your everyday decisions.
  12. He’ll make you feel inspired. You’ll suddenly have more creativity in you than you ever thought possible.
  13. He’ll make you feel like anything is possible. He will open your eyes to places and things, freeing you from your doubts about yourself and your life.
  14. He’ll make you feel safe. You will never feel uncomfortable, vulnerable, or scared in his presence. You know that your safety is paramount for him.
  15. He’ll make you feel like an original. It’s a scientific fact that no two people are the same, and he’ll make you feel exactly like that. Totally unique in all the world.
Amanda Chatel is a sexual health, mental health, and wellness journalist with more than a decade of experience. Her work has been featured in Shape, Glamour, SELF, Harper's Bazaar, The Atlantic, Forbes, Elle, Mic, Men's Health and Bustle, where she was a lifestyle writer for seven years. In 2019, The League included Amanda in their "15 Inspirational Feminists Every Single Person Should Follow on Twitter" list.

Amanda has a bachelor's degree in English and master's degree in Creative Writing from the University of New Hampshire. She divides her time between NYC, Paris, and Barcelona.

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