Being single often gets a bad rap, but some people thrive solo. Those rare gems don’t need a partner to feel fulfilled, happy, or complete. You’re part of the special empowered crew if you recognize these 15 signs.
1. You Love Hanging Out with Yourself
You actually like hanging out with yourself and never feel bored or lonely. Instead, you treasure alone time and the freedom to do whatever you want, whether binge-watching a show, reading a book, or going for a walk. You don’t need someone around (or a partner) to feel entertained or content.
2. You Follow Your Timeline, Not Society’s
You’re not fazed by traditional timelines like you need to be married by 30 and have kids by 35. You’ve got your own plans and path and don’t need society or a partner to tell you how to live your life. Other people’s expectations don’t dictate your happiness; that’s an inside job.
3. You’re Invested in You
You’re busy chasing your goals and not the right person. You have a growth mindset, and it’s set to success, whether advancing your career, learning new skills, or working on your health. You’re constantly growing and evolving and your biggest project is you.
4. You Are Complete, Thank You Very Much
You cringe at the thought of needing to find your other half. You know you’re complete and that a relationship should elevate your life, not boost your sense of self. A partner would be a lovely bonus, but you don’t need one to feel whole.
5. You Reset in Solitude
Loneliness doesn’t freak you out. Sure, you have moments when you crave companionship, but you’re not sitting around feeling sad and lonely. Your life is complete; you not only can handle solitude, but you find peace in it.
6. You’re Selective About Who You Date
You don’t date for the sake of dating. If someone’s not bringing it to the table, you’re perfectly happy to stay single. You’d rather wait for the right person than waste your time on the wrong person or relationship. And if it doesn’t happen, you’re fine on your own.
7. You Do Whatever You Want
You love that being single means you can eat cereal for dinner, binge-watch a series all weekend, or take a last-minute solo trip without having to check with anyone. Being single means having the freedom to make your own decisions and do whatever you want when you want, and that independence feels amazing.
8. You Drown Out the Noise
You don’t frantically text or call people to fill the void when no one’s around. You’re perfectly comfortable with silence and embrace it as time for reflection and self-care. You don’t feel the need to fill every moment with chatter; today’s world is noisy enough.
9. Your Circle is Pure Love
You know that being single doesn’t mean being alone. You have a strong group of friends and family who love you, and you nurture those relationships. You understand that love, companionship, and support come in different shapes and sizes, not just romantic relationships.
10. You Own Who You Are
You know who you are, what you want, and what you stand for. Being single has allowed you time to really figure yourself out, and that’s a gift. That self-assuredness makes you feel empowered and you know your worth, being single is a relationship status not who you are.
11. You’re a Self-Care Master
You know how to take care of yourself in life, at work, and in terms of your health and wellness. You prioritize self-care, whether treating yourself to a night in with a face mask or tackling a project you’ve been putting off. You don’t need a partner to remind you to look after yourself—you’ve got that down.
12. You Don’t Get Jealous of Couples
Seeing happy couples doesn’t make you feel envious, sad, or bitter. You’re genuinely happy for them; it gives you hope, and you don’t feel like you’re missing out. You know that happiness doesn’t only come from being in a relationship, but you also believe in the universe’s timing.
13. You Aren’t Ashamed to be Single
You don’t constantly defend or make excuses for your single status, nor does it make you feel inadequate. You’re secure in your decision to be single or the reasons why you are, and you don’t feel the need to explain yourself to anyone. Living a happy life on your terms is enough.
14. You Live for “You-Time”
You love your “me-time.” It’s sacred, and when you feel most centered. You don’t feel like you’re missing anything by declining an invite and spending time alone. In fact, you’ll happily take yourself out to lunch or spend an entire weekend recharging solo.
15. You Believe in Love and Timing
You’re not in a desperate rush to find “the one.” You trust that if and when the right relationship comes along, it’ll happen naturally at the right time. In the meantime, you’re perfectly happy living your best single life without feeling like you’re waiting for anything or putting your joy on hold.
