15 Ways You’ll Know Someone’s Super Into You

15 Ways You’ll Know Someone’s Super Into You

So, you like someone a lot, but you’re not sure if they feel the same way. Don’t worry, we’ve all been there. Decoding those signals can be tricky, but it gets a little bit easier if you know what you’re looking for. Here are some tell-tale signs that someone might be head over heels for you (or at least on their way to falling).

1. Their eyes light up when they see you.

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You know that sparkle in someone’s eyes when they’re genuinely excited? If their face lights up like a Christmas tree every time they spot you, it’s a pretty good sign they’re thrilled to see you. It’s like you’re their favorite person in the room — and hey, maybe you are.

2. They remember the little details.

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Did you mention you love a certain type of chocolate, or that you have a quirky hobby? If they remember those tiny details and surprise you with a thoughtful gesture, it shows they’re paying close attention to everything you say and do. It’s like having a personal fan club!

3. They go out of their way to spend time with you.

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When someone’s really into you, they’ll find any excuse to be around you. They might rearrange their schedule, offer to help you with errands, or just pop up in places you frequent. It’s like they have a built-in radar for your location!

4. They get a little nervous around you.

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Butterflies in the stomach aren’t just for teenagers. If they stumble over their words, blush, or fidget a little when you’re around, it could be a sign they’re feeling a little nervous. It’s kind of cute, in a bumbling way.

5. They shower you with compliments.

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Everyone loves a good compliment, and if they’re constantly telling you how amazing you look, how smart you are, or how much they admire you, it’s a sure sign they’re smitten. Who doesn’t love feeling appreciated?

6. They make an effort to impress you.

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Whether it’s dressing up, cracking jokes, or showing off their skills, if they’re going the extra mile to make you laugh or notice them, it’s a pretty good indicator they want to leave a lasting impression. It’s like they’re auditioning for the role of your partner-in-crime.

7. They’re always available to lend a helping hand.

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Need help moving furniture or a shoulder to cry on? If they’re always there for you, no matter what, it’s a sign they genuinely care about your well-being. It’s like having a personal superhero on speed dial.

8. They find excuses to touch you.

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As Matthew Hussey explains, a light touch on the arm, a playful nudge, or a gentle brush of the hand are all subtle ways someone might try to initiate physical contact. It’s a way of testing the waters and seeing how you respond. If you’re into it, you might find yourself leaning in for more.

9. They mirror your body language.

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Subconsciously, people tend to mirror the body language of those they’re attracted to. It’s a way of building rapport and connection. So, if you notice they’re crossing their legs when you cross yours, or leaning in when you lean in, it could be a subtle sign of attraction. It’s like a silent dance of interest.

10. They introduce you to their friends and family.

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Bringing you into their inner circle is a big deal. It means they’re proud to be associated with you and want to share their life with you. It’s a sign they see you as someone special and want their loved ones to see it too. It’s like getting a stamp of approval from their entourage.

11. They tease you playfully.

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Remember those schoolyard crushes who would pull your pigtails or tease you relentlessly? Well, playful teasing can still be a sign of attraction in adults. It’s a way of flirting and showing interest without being too serious. Just make sure it’s lighthearted and doesn’t cross the line into hurtful territory.

12. They initiate conversations and keep them going.

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Whether it’s texting you good morning, asking about your day, or engaging in deep conversations, someone who’s into you will make an effort to stay connected. They’ll want to know what you’re up to, what you’re thinking, and how you’re feeling. It’s like they can’t get enough of your voice.

13. They get jealous (in a cute way).

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A little jealousy can be a healthy sign of interest. If they get a little flustered when they see you talking to someone else or express concern about your other relationships, it could be a sign they want you all to themselves. It’s like they’re trying to stake their claim on your heart.

14. They give you thoughtful gifts.

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A thoughtful gift doesn’t have to be expensive. It’s the thought that counts. If they give you something that shows they’ve been paying attention to your interests or needs, it’s a clear sign they care about making you happy. It’s like a little love note wrapped in a bow.

15. They tell you directly.

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Sometimes, the most obvious sign is the most overlooked. If they come right out and tell you how they feel, believe them! It takes courage to put your heart on the line, so if they’re willing to be vulnerable with you, it’s a sign they’re serious about their feelings. It’s the ultimate declaration of affection.

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Harper Stanley graduated from Eugene Lang College at The New School in NYC in 2006 with a degree in Media Studies and Literature and Critical Analysis. After graduating, she worked as an editorial assistant at The Atlantic before moving to the UK to work for the London Review of Books.

When she's not waxing poetic about literature, she's writing articles about dating, relationships, and other women's lifestyle topics to help make their lives better. While shocking, she really has somehow managed to avoid joining any social media apps — a fact she's slightly smug about.
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