When you finally meet a guy you feel like you could actually settle down with, you can’t help but wonder if your connection was written in the stars. What are the signs that you’re meant to be together? If you relate to any of these things, it’s clear fate has brought you together.
You’re open, honest, and don’t keep secrets.
Communication is the most important thing in a relationship. When things are rough and you’re not on the same page, you have to be able to work things out with your words. If you aren’t able to do that, it’s just not going to last.
You’re happy to be committed to each other and aren’t tempted to look elsewhere.
There are people who are monogamous and those who are always on the lookout for the next best thing. It’s important to be happy with your partner and be unconditionally faithful — not just until something else comes along.
You speak the same love language.
This is one of the biggest signs you’re meant to be. There are different ways to tell someone you love them and they’re all valid, but everyone has their preferences for how they give and receive it. Find out what your and your partner’s love language is online. Even if they don’t match up, as long as you’re willing to compromise and show your partner you love them in their way, it should all work out.
Your vision of the future is in sync.
Not everyone wants to get married and have kids, so it’s best to make sure you’re on the same page about this ASAP. Some issues just can’t be compromised, so it’s important that your vision for your future relationship lines up.
You want the same things out of day-to-day life.
This is one of the most important signs you’re meant to be. If you’re an active person, you’ll probably want someone who’ll go to the gym with you. If you’re a homebody, you’ll want someone who loves staying in, as well. It’s fine to take time to pursue your own goals or interests, but if one of you is a couch potato while the other is a workaholic, there’s no chance it’ll work out.
The orgasms you give each other are off the charts.
This is also one of the most important things for a relationship. Are you open to the same things in the bedroom? Are you able to talk to each other about sex and take direction? These are very important things to know in order to figure out if the fireworks in the bedroom will last.
More signs you’re meant to be
You have stuff in common but enough differences to keep things interesting.
Couples don’t have to do everything with each other (and you probably shouldn’t), but you should have some interests in common so that you have something to talk about and connect through. Opposites might attract, but they don’t make for a long-term relationship.
You feel a connection you can’t explain.
Sometimes you simply can’t explain the connection you have with someone. You’re just drawn to them and can’t stay away from them (not that you’ve tried!). It’s like there’s an invisible string holding you together and you’re powerless to resist it. This kind of connection is rare, to say the least, and it’s worth holding onto.
When you’re with them, you feel safe.
When you’re in a relationship, you want to feel like the person you’re with has your best interests at heart. You want to feel that they care about you, that they have your back, and that they would never let anything happen to you if they could help it. If you feel this way with them, that’s one of the clearest signs you’re meant to be.
You accept them as they are.
When you first start dating someone, it’s easy to put them on a pedestal and believe that everything about them is perfect. But no matter how well-suited you are, nobody is perfect and you’re going to see their flaws sooner or later. If you’ve seen them at their worst and love them despite this, you stand a pretty good chance of going the distance.
No one makes you laugh like each other.
This may not seem like a big deal but it really is. The truth is that life is going to throw a lot of crap your way over the years and if you can’t laugh about it, it could just take you down entirely. You also need to be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously, as well as your partner. If the two of you laugh together until you’re literally about to pee your pants (or you actually do), that’s one of the best signs you’re meant to be.
You balance each other out perfectly.
Maybe you have zero patience and your partner is the most laid-back person ever. Perhaps they have a temper but you’re able to take things in stride much more easily. Whatever your differences, they perfectly complement one another to create a harmonious balance and it feels amazing.
They push you to be the best version of yourself and vice versa.
If you’re looking for signs that you’re meant to be, look no further than this one. If you can count on your partner to push you to be the very best version of yourself and they’ve told you that you do the same for them, congrats. You’re in a healthy, fulfilling relationship.
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