It’s important to tell the guy you’re with how you feel, but there are things you should be saying before “I love you” that’ll definitely show a guy that you’re committed, dedicated, and feel lucky to be with him. Before you drop the L bomb, you’re going to want to drop these first:
“You have a kick ass sense of humor.”
If you don’t think he’s funny, you’re going to have a boring ass relationship. While humor isn’t a key quality for every woman’s dream guy, if you’re turned off by the fact that he loves tasteless potty humor, that doesn’t really bode well.
“You really look great in (insert color here).”
This’ll show him that you’re interested in his fashion choices, and note when he’s looking especially attractive. It’s also way less jarring than a simple “you’re hot,” since, while attraction is extremely important in loving relationships, looks often fade with time. This shows you don’t just care about his six-pack, but think he’s adorable overall.
Guys can be really sweet sometimes — chivalry totally isn’t dead. Thanking a guy for being a gentleman shows that you’re not in this relationship solely to be pampered — a simple “thank you” goes a long way, and lets him know that his kind actions are being noted, and the relationship isn’t just for convenience.
“I really like spending time with you.”
Even if you sit around and watch Netflix together, this proves that you’re comfortable with him all-around, and don’t necessarily need fancy dates and crazy activities to enjoy your time together. The best couples can be content while doing nothing, and being restless while doing nothing means that you might not be able to handle a full-blown relationship with him long term. A simple nod to his amazing presence shows that you’re at a level with him that’s way stronger than “like.”
“Would you like to meet my parents someday?”
Scary, yes, but it’s definitely proof that you see him being in your life for a while, and don’t just want to hit it and quit it. It’s possible he might not be ready to take this step yet, but at least he’ll know that you find him to be parent-worthy. If you fear the introduction yourself, you might not be ready to enter the love-zone with this guy. Even if your parents are insane, you’ll know in your heart that the right guy will see past that.
“I trust you.”
If you don’t trust your partner, you’re not totally in love with him — you’re just in love with the idea of who he could be. If you don’t have trust in a relationship, you have nothing. If you truly love someone, you don’t feel the need to troll through their phone (and if he loves you, he won’t give you any reason to troll through his phone).
“You make me happy.”
Does your mood improve when he’s around? Does he always find a way to cheer you up, even if your day was utter dog poop? Does he try to find the sunshine in even the darkest of situations? Sounds like he’s on the verge of love, if not already there. Tell him how happy he makes you. While even couples deeply in love tend to get into petty arguments every once in a while, your guy should never make you feel worse.
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