An influencer has revealed her foolproof way of getting guys to pay for her drinks at the bar, claiming that while it’s admittedly “f**ked up,” it’s ridiculously easy and based on simple psychology.
Posting on TikTok, 21-year-old Kendall Kiper posted a video captioned “Praying only girls see this” in which she shared her method for manipulating the male ego at bars to get free drinks.
“I do this way more often than I care to admit,” she begins, adding that the tactic works “99% of the time.”
All you need to do is find a guy to target, and you’ll need to make sure you pick the right one if you want this “hack” to work.
“You need to look for a guy who looks like they have a super big ego,” she begins. From there, you can ask him what he’s drinking tonight before you launch into your play.
@kendallkiper praying only girls see this HAHAHA
“So let’s say he’s like, ‘Oh, I’m about to order a tequila soda,’” Kiper explained. “You can either be like, ‘Oh, I love tequila sodas,’ or you can be like, ‘Oh, I was going to order a vodka cran.’”
At that point, you offer to buy the man’s drink, which will then trigger his ego to seem more powerful and he should offer to pay up.
“They’re going to be like, ‘What? No. What? Like let me buy you a drink,’” she said, adding that while it’s messed up, it makes up for the fact that men treat women “like s**t 95% of the time.”
“It’s like girl, go get your free drink and move on,” she concluded.
Women were loving the tip in the comments section, with many calling it the “smartest thing they’ve ever heard” and others branding her a genius. Some even revealed that they’ve been using this trick for years and it works well. Go figure!
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