People like to throw around the term “psychopath” when someone is acting out, but they often don’t understand the weight of what it really means. It’s much more serious than simple aggression or bad behavior. Here are 14 subtle signs that someone close to you might have psychopathic tendencies.
1. They lack remorse.
Psychopaths rarely show genuine remorse or vulnerability. They keep people at an emotional distance, which can make those around them feel uneasy. Their lack of remorse or empathy suggests a deep disconnect from typical emotional responses.
2. They have an undercurrent of violence.
Some psychopaths display violent tendencies or fantasies, even if they don’t act on them. Historical cases of psychopaths reveal that an underlying tendency toward aggression or violence is common, so if you ever feel unsafe, it’s wise to distance yourself.
3. They find immoral ways of getting what they want.
ShutterstockPsychopaths often ignore social or moral standards to get their way. They might resort to manipulation, lying, or cheating without considering the consequences. Their behavior stems from a lack of understanding of basic moral principles, often due to inadequate upbringing.
4. They can’t regulate their emotions and are impulsive.
The triarchic model of psychopathy identifies disinhibition—lack of restraint—as a core feature. If someone is erratic and impulsive, unable to manage emotions well, it may be a sign of deeper psychopathic tendencies.
5. They leave a trail of broken hearts in their wake.
Psychopaths struggle to form genuine emotional connections, which makes them terrible in relationships. They’re often described as exploitative, using charm to get what they want, without regard for the emotional wreckage they leave behind.
6. They are cold, manipulative, and immature.
Psychopaths are emotionally unavailable and immature. Studies indicate that a lack of nurturing relationships in childhood can lead to a cold and manipulative demeanor in adulthood. Such people often lack the ability to relate or empathize with others on a deeper level.
7. They were neglected in childhood.
A challenging childhood with neglect, abandonment, or abuse can contribute to psychopathic traits. According to studies, genetic, hereditary, and environmental factors combine to foster psychopathy, so a traumatic childhood may set the stage for problematic behaviors.
8. They show contempt for other people.
Psychopaths often look down on others, viewing themselves as superior. This contempt can manifest in subtle ways, like dismissive remarks or condescending behavior, making them seem untouchable. If they consistently show disdain, it’s a telling sign of psychopathic traits.
9. They can switch from tantrum to criminal in a second.
Psychopaths may act out like a frustrated child, but their tantrums can turn criminal quickly. Studies have shown a connection between psychopathic tendencies and criminal behavior, especially when faced with situations they can’t control or handle maturely.
10. They’re shallow.
©iStock/sonertuncerPsychopaths are often shallow and vain, without the typical voice of reason that keeps most people in check. This lack of empathy means they don’t care about others’ perceptions, acting as if only their world matters, with no second thought about anyone else.
11. They charm without substance.
Psychopaths are often incredibly charming, able to draw people in with ease. However, this charm is almost always totally superficial and used to manipulate. They lack genuine depth in their connections and rarely care about the feelings or well-being of others. Beneath the charm, there’s a cold detachment that keeps them from forming real bonds.
12. They’re skilled at playing the victim.
A common trait of psychopaths is the ability to make themselves seem like the victim, even in situations where they’re clearly at fault. They manipulate others by twisting the narrative, making people feel sorry for them or excusing their behavior. This deflection tactic allows them to avoid accountability and keeps the focus away from their harmful actions.
13. They’re strangely unaffected by fear.
While most people experience fear in dangerous or high-stakes situations, psychopaths are often unusually calm. They don’t respond to threats or risks the way others do, which can make them seem bold or fearless. This lack of fear can lead them to take risks without considering consequences, making their actions unpredictable and often reckless.
14. They get bored easily and crave cheap thrills.
Psychopaths are constantly searching for stimulation and may feel bored or restless in everyday life. This boredom often drives them to seek excitement, sometimes through risky or even dangerous activities. Their need for constant thrills is a way of filling the emptiness they feel inside, and it often leads to impulsive, erratic behavior.
15. They lie effortlessly and often.
Psychopaths are frequent and skilled liars. They don’t just lie to cover up bad behavior—they lie for the sake of it, often without any clear benefit. Deception comes naturally to them, and they have little regard for the truth, which makes it hard to know where you stand with them. Over time, this creates an unsettling, mistrustful atmosphere in their relationships.
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