Why Alpha Women Work Best With Alpha Males

You might think that an alpha woman would butt heads with an alpha male, but actually, the opposite is true. They actually make the best couples, because they have so much in common. Here’s why alpha women work best with alpha males:

  1. You both have high standards. He won’t accept poor treatment, and neither will you, which is why you’ll never feel neglected. You’ll both want your relationship to be the best relationship in town, which is why you’ll try your hardest to make each other happy.
  2. He’ll understand your need for space. He won’t question you when you go out with your friends, or get upset when you ask him to leave you alone for a few hours. He’ll understand that you need some time to yourself, because he feels the same way.
  3. You’re both passionate. An alpha woman plus an alpha male equals the hottest sex you’ll ever have. Inside and outside of the bedroom, you’ll both put in your all, which means you’re bound to have some steamy sex.
  4. His career comes first. Some men can’t understand your obsession with your career. However, alpha males love their jobs too, so they won’t ever tear you down for wanting to put in extra hours at the office.
  5. He doesn’t care what others think. Real alpha males don’t give a damn about gender roles. If you’re too busy to cook for him, then he’ll whip something up without feeling any less masculine than he did before.
  6. He doesn’t need a relationship to feel fulfilled. This might not sound like a good thing, but it certainly is. It means he’s dating you, because he wants to date you, and not because he feels like he needs any old woman in his life.
  7. He can take a joke. Alpha males have high confidence, so they won’t get emotional when you poke fun at them. They’ll be able to handle the borderline inappropriate jokes that some alpha women love to make.
  8. He’ll appreciate your personality. Some men are scared off by an alpha woman’s bold traits. However, your personality isn’t unappealing to him—it’s actually incredibly sexy.
  9. He’s used to working hard. Serious relationships require plenty of effort, but that won’t scare an alpha male away. He’s used to working hard, just like you are, so he’ll see the challenge as a positive thing.
  10. You’ll grow together. You’re both intelligent, which means you’ll have a lot to teach each other. A healthy relationship is all about growth, and two alphas will always be willing to learn.
Holly Riordan is a writer from Long Island, New York who has authored several science fiction and horror books. A graduate of Stony Brook University, she has spent nearly a decade writing for publications including Thought Catalog, Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, and more. You can find her on Instagram @hollyrio and Twitter @hollyyrio.