Here’s Why The Most Amazing Women Are Always Single

Here’s Why The Most Amazing Women Are Always Single ©iStock/filadendron

We’re smart, hot, and have a ton to offer the world, particularly a boyfriend — so why is it so damn hard to find a good one? We’re on the lookout for love at every available opportunity, but somehow we always come up short. It’s not like our lives aren’t already amazing, and we’d never settle for less than the very best, but seriously, what gives? Here’s why the most amazing women are always single:

  1. Our lives are full even without love. We might not have a date to every party and we might sit at the singles tables at every wedding we attend, but we’re still living lives that are full and content with or without a romantic partner. We don’t necessarily need to add to the life we’re already happy with. We’re too busy being happy to notice we’re single half the time, anyway.
  2. We’re all the wiser from trial and errors. We meet new people, we date and we even gets our hopes up from time to time. We’ve tried and failed and because of this, we know exactly what we want and what we don’t — and that’s not a bad thing, despite what many people say. We’re not about to accept less than that just to get a date.
  3. We don’t need a guy to feel complete. In the absence of love, we’re still happy with who we are and where we’re at in life right now. We’re constantly finding ways to better ourselves and grow as a person. Yes, people can grow in relationships too, but there’s something slightly different about getting to know and improving ourselves with no one but us in the equation.
  4. We’ve got plenty of people who love us already. Amazing single women are happy without love for a number of reasons, but one of the main reasons is because we’re not just sitting around waiting, hoping and itching to meet a new guy at all times. Instead, we’re busy catching up with friends, spending time with family and keeping up with the relationships we have here and now. Love with the right guy would only be a bonus, not a necessity.
  5. We’re bossing our careers. Some of the most fierce and successful women are single, and it’s because instead of dwelling on what we don’t have, we focus on what we do have. Focusing more on the here and now lets us fully appreciate the life we’re living and the rewards we reap because of it are major.
  6. Our independence and strength wards off players. We a lot of players and morons who are only looking to get laid or aren’t ready to handle someone as amazing as us. They know better than to get their egos burned by dynamic women they don’t deserve.
  7. We’re a challenge to get. Men know that getting our interest requires genuine and thoughtful effort — a skill that’s seriously lacking in modern dating culture. If someone isn’t willing to step up to the plate, we’ll happily sit at home until someone worthy actually steps up. We won’t just accept what’s put before us — we want someone who’ll work for it, just like us.
  8. We’re holding out for someone worth our investment. The main reason the amazing ones are always single is because we know what we have to offer and we’re not wasting our time with guys we know it won’t work with. What’s the point? We’d rather be alone and living our lives happily in every other way than testing the iffy waters with someone we know isn’t going to make us happy five, 10 and 50 years down the road.