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Halle Kaye

Halle Kaye

Halle Kaye has been writing for Bolde since 2014. She writes primarily about dating, marriage, divorce, parenting, friendship and family dynamics.

As someone who is unapologetically hyper-independent, Halle writes extensively about people who are high-functioning, high-achieving and tend to rely exclusively on themselves. She writes about the origins of this psychological profile as well as the loneliness that often comes with it. She regularly shares her personal experiences navigating parenting, family and friendship with these tendencies and speaks candidly about those moments she wishes she had someone she could rely on.

Halle is also the author of the popular 2012 dating book Maybe He's Just an Ahole: Ditch Denial, Embrace Your Worth, and Find True Love! which was based on her dating experiences in college. Halle splits her time between Westport, CT and New York.

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If you clean while you cook, you’re not just organized—these small habits reveal what you were taught about control and judgment

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I’ve always been an overpacker—here’s how I finally stopped

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I’m in my 50s and I’ve stopped investing too much in my friendships because I’m finally acknowledging what little I get back in return

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If looking at photos of yourself makes you cringe, it’s because a big part of you doesn’t feel fully comfortable being seen

If looking at photos of yourself makes you cringe, it’s because a big part of you doesn’t feel fully comfortable being seen

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The friends who really matter aren’t the ones who try to make everything sound better—they’re the ones who can look at the reality with you and not flinch

The friends who really matter aren’t the ones who try to make everything sound better—they’re the ones who can look at the reality with you and not flinch

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Some men inherit more than their father’s belongings—these emotional patterns are what they carry without realizing it

Some men inherit more than their father’s belongings—these emotional patterns are what they carry without realizing it

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