Dating A Gemini Woman: 11 Things You Should Know

Born between May 21 and June 21, Gemini women are energetic, inquisitive, and clever. They’re excited about life and love being in love. But if you’re dating a Gemini woman, there are a few things you should know. Read about them below!

  1. She gets bored easily. Gemini women are smart and curious. Often, this means they can get bored quite easily. She will resist routine and may freak out at the slightest sign of slipping into a rut. So when you’re with a Gemini woman, it’s important to keep things fun. Regularly make an effort to go on date nights. Mix things up with double-dating. Plan vacations. Take classes together. And try to keep the variation in your life together so she doesn’t feel bored.
  2. She’s a people-person. Geminis are social butterflies. A Gemini woman naturally loves people and can feel quite sad and drained when she’s isolated. Some people withdraw from their friendship groups when they get into a relationship. But this certainly isn’t the case with a Gemini woman. You have to respect her need to be around people and still see her friends, even if she’s in a committed relationship with you.
  3. She’ll go with the flow. One of the reasons why Gemini women make great partners is that they go with the flow. She’s very adaptable and easy-going. When you’re with a Gemini woman, she’ll usually be happy to follow you as long as you keep things fun and interesting. The downside is this sign doesn’t tend to mesh well with people who are overly rigid or highly strung.
  4. She can get nervous, which may affect her confidence. Gemini women are prone to feeling nervous which can then make them come across as shy or insecure. This is particularly common in the early days when you first start dating. If she’s quiet or reserved, rest assured that is because she’s nervous and still needs to come out of her shell; not because she’s genuinely a quiet person.
  5. She can’t tolerate clinginess. Freedom is important to all Geminis. While Gemini women do love being in relationships, they don’t like to feel tied down. So they don’t make great partners for people who are prone to clinginess. When they are in relationships, Gemini women like to maintain their own sense of independence. A partner who is too clingy will annoy her and possibly push her away in the long run.

More things you should know about dating a Gemini woman

  1. Communication is important to her. Gemini women can be great communicators. They would rather that everything is laid out on the table where you both can see it, rather than sweeping uncomfortable topics under the rug. She doesn’t mind having difficult conversations and can handle criticism well. So it’s important to her that her partner values communication as much as she does. When dating a Gemini woman, don’t be afraid to open up about how you’re feeling. Tell her what’s on your mind and what you need. She won’t hesitate to do the same with you.
  2. She loves being in a relationship. Despite her fear of being tied down, a Gemini woman usually loves being in a relationship. She loves the emotional stimulation she gets from committing to someone else and adores the companionship. This is something to keep in mind if you’re dating her. Unless she’s specifically looking for a no-strings-attached arrangement, she’ll most likely want to move into an official relationship when she’s ready.
  3. But it may take her a long time to commit. Given that Gemini women want to be sure about their partners before they commit themselves, it may take her a long time to say yes to actually being in a relationship. Even if this is her ultimate dream, she won’t jump in before she’s ready. After all, Gemini women are often enthusiastic about all of life’s phases, including being single. She won’t want to give up that kind of freedom until she’s completely sure and prepared for it.
  4. She needs me-time. When you’re dating a Gemini woman, be aware that she needs me-time. The type of relationship where you hang out together all of the time will make her feel suffocated and overwhelmed. No matter how much she loves you and loves spending time with you, Gemini women love being independent. She’s likely to want to keep her own life and push for her own space, even after she’s committed to you.
  5. She might forget things. Gemini women are notorious for being forgetful. Try not to take it personally if there are things that slip her mind while you’re together. These women absorb so much information during the day because they’re incredibly receptive to the world around them, so it’s easy for them to be a little forgetful!
  6. She can be stubborn. Most of the time, Gemini women are easy-going and versatile. But when they get an idea in their heads, they can be super stubborn. If a Gemini woman thinks she’s right, she’s likely not to budge from that position. With a Gemini woman, it’s important to know when to argue, and when to back down!
Vanessa Locampo is an Aussie writer who’s equally obsessed with YA fiction and pasta. Her time is divided between writing all the things, reading all the things, listening to Queen, and bopping her cat on the nose. She has a bachelor’s degree in Creative Writing and has written for sites including Hotsprings.co and Discovering Montana, and currently works as an editor at Glam. You can keep up with her on Instagram @vanessaellewrites.