Dating A Libra Man: 10 Things You Should Know

Dating a Libran man often means being swept off your feet by romantic gestures and overwhelmed with love. These men are typically natural dreamboats and always know the right thing to say. As agreeable and affectionate as they are, there are still a few things you should know about dating a Libran man. Read about them below!

  1. He’s romantic. Libran men tend to be more romantic than the other zodiac signs. If you’re not used to romance, this can feel a little daunting or even ingenuine. But don’t get freaked out! A Libran guy isn’t just romancing you to try and get you to let your guard down—he’s just a natural charmer. He likes public displays of affection and grand romantic gestures, and it comes naturally to him to show his feelings in this way.
  2. He likes to be the center of attention. There are a few signs in the zodiac who would do well in Hollywood, and Libra is one of them. This sign loves being the center of attention, which can be endearing or annoying to a partner. His desire to have the attention of the room may make him charming, and you might find that all your friends love him. But this desire can also come across as needy. And it doesn’t work out that well when you also like to be the center of attention, since there will be a tug of war for the spotlight.
  3. He’ll take a while to make decisions. Libras are known for their indecisiveness. He’s a naturally wise sign so he likes to put all the facts in front of him and really consider all his options before making a decision. Because he so desperately wants to make the right choice, he sometimes puts off making a choice altogether. When dating a Libran man, you’ll often have to be patient when it comes to him making decisions.
  4. Issues may be hard to resolve. It’s normal to argue and fight with your significant other. While all healthy couples have conflict, Librans hate conflict of any kind. They are people-pleasers and will often do or say anything to avoid having a full-blown war of words. The issue with this is sometimes you need to have those difficult discussions so you can resolve your problems. Librans are likely to sweep issues under the rug until they become bigger rather than solving them as they arise.
  5. You’ll have to fight your own battles. Because Libran men don’t enjoy conflict, they probably won’t be quick to defend you when you come into conflict with other people. Instead, they’ll often advise you to patch things up with anyone you’re at odds with. While they are loyal signs, they would rather be agreeable than stick up for people, if they can help it.
  6. You might not get a lot of alone time. Often, Libras don’t love being alone. They are more likely to want to spend their time with others than with themselves. So if you’re the type of person who needs a lot of alone time, it’s important to make that clear to your Libra partner. They probably won’t register that need on their own.
  7. He may care what other people think of him. To a certain degree, everyone cares what other people think. But being a people-pleaser and a charmer, Libra is one of the biggest culprits when it comes to caring about the opinions of others. This can be draining if you care less and don’t necessarily want to accommodate for everyone else before yourself.
  8. Others might easily manipulate him. While Librans are natural leaders, they can also be easy for others to manipulate. Their tendency to see the good in people and want to make others happy can often lead to people taking advantage of them. When dating a Libra, you might have to step in when you notice someone manipulating him. He won’t always notice it himself!
  9. Vanity may be an issue. One of the most charismatic traits of this charismatic sign is confidence. Libran men are typically very self-assured. Sometimes, though, that can cross over into vanity. Librans often care a lot about how they look and spend a lot of time on their personal presentation. And when they like what they see, they can get a little cocky!
  10. Criticism can be hard for him to take. No one enjoys criticism. But Libran men might find criticism especially difficult to accept because they’re so sensitive. If you do have something to bring up with a Libran man, it’s best to say it as gently as possible. Always remember how he might be feeling and choose your words wisely.
Vanessa Locampo is an Aussie writer who’s equally obsessed with YA fiction and pasta. Her time is divided between writing all the things, reading all the things, listening to Queen, and bopping her cat on the nose. She has a bachelor’s degree in Creative Writing and has written for sites including and Discovering Montana, and currently works as an editor at Glam. You can keep up with her on Instagram @vanessaellewrites.