Dating A Libra Woman: 10 Things You Should Know

Libran women are natural lovers. They love the idea of being in love, they love romantic gestures, and they love working as part of a team with someone special. All of this makes them one of the best signs to date, and their agreeability means they’re compatible with a lot of people. But there are still a few things about dating a Libra woman that you should know. Check them out below!

  1. She’d rather be in a relationship than be alone. Most Libra women would rather be in a relationship than be alone. They are natural team players and feel better when they’re part of a couple than alone. While that can mean that a Libra woman is likely to want to be in a relationship, it can also mean that she’s sometimes eager to move quickly and establish a relationship label before the person she’s dating is ready.
  2. She may need to be validated often. Libran women love to receive compliments. While they are naturally confident, they also tend to seek validation from others. They might ask your opinion or fish for praise on a lot of things. Sometimes, they also need to hear that they’re doing a good job at something or they have their life together.
  3. A monotonous relationship may scare her. It’s true that many Libran women crave relationships and don’t do as well as singletons. But at the same time, a monotonous relationship may still scare her. When she is in a relationship, she needs variety and adventure. You have to keep it spicy and work together to avoid falling into a rut. A rut is one of her biggest fears!
  4. She loves being part of a team. Librans are natural team players, which is why she works so well as part of a couple. They are sociable and love supporting their partners. She’ll also expect that support in return since she expects you to work as part of a unified force than as two individuals. The team-player aspect of a Libran woman often makes her a great romantic partner to have.
  5. She’s a natural leader. Being a cardinal sign, Libras are also very good leaders. Being the leader in a relationship comes naturally to a Libran woman, even though she’s still a team player. She’s not the type to abuse any power that she has or be too domineering, but she does like to take the lead. That said, being a leader does not mean that a Libran woman likes to make all the decisions in the relationship since decision-making is not her strong point.
  6. Your problems might not seem as big as hers. Libras have a tendency of getting wrapped up in their own lives and thinking that their problems are bigger than everyone else’s. This sign does enjoy the odd pity party here and there! When they’re going through a hard time, they tend to believe that they’re being singled out for suffering and they have a much worse lot in life than everyone else they know. As a result, Libran partners can sometimes dismiss the feelings and problems of their significant others.
  7. A healthy social life is important to her. Like the other air signs, Libra is social and loves to be around people. Being such a people person, a healthy social life is important to her. That means that she’s not really well-matched to someone who likes to stay in all the time and hates being around other people. She’s also the type to enjoy things like double dates and group hangouts rather than just being alone with her partner all the time.
  8. She fights fairly. One of the best qualities of Librans is that they value justice. They’re all about balance and doing what’s fair. So the good news is fighting with a Libran woman is often more productive than arguing with other signs. She usually manages to keep a level head and doesn’t like to hit below the belt, even when she’s super angry.
  9. You can’t always rely on her. It’s common knowledge that Libra isn’t the most reliable sign in the zodiac. They’re similar to the other air signs in that they aren’t great at committing to several plans. They often suffer from lateness or just don’t show up at all. But being natural people-pleasers, Libras are often super apologetic when they do leave you hanging! Try not to be too hard on your Libran date if she shows up a little late.
  10. She appreciates gifts. All Libras love beautiful things. They have a strong sense of style and know the kinds of things they like. Are they materialistic? Sometimes (but that’s not a crime). A gift for a Libran woman would never go to waste since this is the kind of love language she really appreciates. While some women can’t stand public displays of affection, this is often the quickest way to a Libran’s heart. She loves being the center of attention and loves to be charmed, wined, and dined.
Vanessa Locampo is an Aussie writer who’s equally obsessed with YA fiction and pasta. Her time is divided between writing all the things, reading all the things, listening to Queen, and bopping her cat on the nose. She has a bachelor’s degree in Creative Writing and has written for sites including and Discovering Montana, and currently works as an editor at Glam. You can keep up with her on Instagram @vanessaellewrites.