Do You Actually Like Him Or Is It Just Nice To Feel Wanted?

When you’ve been single for a while and you actually meet a decent guy, it can be tempting to jump right in and assume he’s your knight in shining armor. But is he really? Do you really like him or if you’re just into the attention he’s giving you because you haven’t had any from a man in so long? Here are some signs that you’re not actually interested in this guy and really just need some lovin’.

You value physical compliments from him most.

You’re not really bothered by him fawning over who you are as a person or how smart you are or whatever. Instead, you value the physical compliments he throws your way. You love when he tells you that you turn him on or that he finds you incredibly sex or that he likes your boobs, etc. That kind of attention is validating – it’s no wonder you’re loving it so much. However, it probably doesn’t go much deeper than that.

You’re always primped and prime when you see him.

Do you really like him? That kinda depends. If you find yourself getting dressed up to the nines every time you’re going to get together, it could be because you’re crazy about him or because you want him to fawn all over you and lavish you with attention and praise? Come on, be honest with yourself…

You feel lonely/sick of being single.

If you’re going gaga over a dude you barely know, could it possibly be because you’ve been single for that long that you’re feeling lonely and in need of some male attention? There’s no shame, but it’s important that you’re honest with yourself so that you can guide your behavior accordingly.

You have no desire to have sex with him.

I’m not saying you should want to jump a guy’s bones immediately, but if you can’t even imagine getting into bed with him, do you really like him? Uh-uh. Instead, you’re probably hanging out with him or continuing to pursue him because you like how his attention makes you feel. Just sayin’.

Your future plans don’t include him.

When you really like someone, you tend to jump to conclusions mentally and start thinking about your joint future together. If that’s not happening, you have to wonder why. What’s the point of dating someone if you can’t imagine a future with them, even if that future is only a few months away? I think you know the truth here.

You tend to reach out to him when you’re bored.

You don’t really think about him all that much when you’re busy with work, your friends, or other stuff. It’s when you’re sitting at home on the couch, bored and alone, that you reach out to him. If you need to know if you do really like him, consider when he pops into your head. It’ll tell you all you need to know.

You still scroll through dating apps.

How can you be into this guy if you’re still looking elsewhere? You can’t. Stop wasting your time and his and move on to something new.

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