Does He Miss Me? How To Make A Man Miss Being With You

You’re totally crazy about the new guy you’ve started seeing and are pretty sure he feels the same. However, you also know that you can’t be together 24-7. Not only is it not feasible and it’s certainly not healthy for the long-term health of your relationship. That being said, just because you’re not physically in the same space doesn’t mean you don’t want to be on his mind. How do you ensure he’s thinking of you even when you’re not around? Here’s how to make him miss you so that when you’re together, things are hotter than ever.

Let him come to you. When people talk about “the thrill of the chase,” they’re not talking about relentlessly reaching out to someone, making all the plans, refusing to let them out of your sight, etc. If you want to know how to make him miss you when you’re not around, it’s as simple as giving him a chance to. That means making yourself scarce, which shouldn’t be all that difficult. You have an incredibly full, fun life outside your relationship, right?

Make the time you do spend together unforgettable. When you are together, the time you share should be memorable. That doesn’t mean you have to dress to the nines or plan some outrageous activity together. However, you should at least have fun, enjoy some romance, or do something together that you can look back on in the future. It’s all about making good memories.

Fill a role in his life that no one else can. A guy is more likely to miss you if there’s something in his life that’s lacking when you’re not around. This doesn’t mean you should become his housekeeper or his personal errand runner, but perhaps you give him support in a way that no one else can because you’ve learned to speak his love language, for instance. If you’re the only person he can come to when he needs a particular need fulfilled, you’re in.

Don’t go all-in too soon. You should never be standoffish or aloof thinking that playing hard to get is the way to a guy’s heart. However, on the other end of the spectrum, you also shouldn’t go all-in at the very beginning. The relationship is new to both of you – act like it. Take your time getting to know each other and make sure to give him space as you take yours. A guy who doesn’t feel like his freedom is being restricted by being with you is one that’s way more likely to miss you when you’re not around.

Don’t always be available. Again, I’m not suggesting game-playing here. What I am suggesting is that you have other things going on in your life so that you’re not always at his beck and call. This means that sometimes when he wants to hang out, you won’t always be available. This isn’t meant to teach him a lesson or anything, but it is meant to show him that you have a life without him and it doesn’t stop when he’s not around. That’s something he’s going to want to be part of for sure.

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