Your man loves the way you use your body, and he doesn’t want you to think any differently, which is why he won’t ask you to do certain things in bed. He’s worried that you’ll assume he wants to try new things because he’s unhappy with you, which is far from the truth — he just wants some variety. All men do. That’s why he doesn’t expect you to do these things in bed, but he’s secretly hoping you will anyway:
- Touch yourself. He’s not the only one who should be touching your body. You have two hands of your own that you should use to caress your breasts and rub your clitoris. Men love sexy views, and it doesn’t get any sexier than seeing you touch yourself.
- Take control. Get on top of him, pin down his arms, and ravish him. He doesn’t want to be the one stuck making decisions all of the time. Once in a while, you should pick the positions and give him orders, so he doesn’t have to think for himself.
- Tease him. The longer you make him wait to orgasm, the more intense that orgasm will be. That’s why he doesn’t always want you to go straight to sucking him. He wants you to remove your clothes slowly, kiss his thighs, and do whatever else you can to tease him.
- Talk dirty. Hearing you say what you want to do to him can be as sexy as watching you do it. Don’t be afraid of sounding like a fool while dirty talking. As long as you tell him how hot he is and how badly you want him, he’ll be too turned on to care about the specifics.
- Dress up. Less isn’t always more. Covering up your body can actually turn him on more than seeing your naked body. As long as you wear something you know he’ll love, like a leather bra or crotchless panties, he’ll go nuts.
- Blow him. He doesn’t want to sound selfish by asking you to go down on him. Of course, he’d always be happy to let you do it. There’s nothing better than sitting back and relaxing while the other person does all of the work.
- Do butt sex. For some reason, men love butt stuff. He might not place his fingers anywhere near there because he doesn’t want you to feel uncomfortable, but the thought has definitely crossed his mind. So if you’re interested in the idea of butt sex, make sure he knows it, because chances are he’s interested too.
- Moan. Men love to know that they’re good in bed. It doesn’t matter if you’re saying his name or making random noises, because as long as he hears your sexy voice in his ear, he’ll think he’s doing an amazing job.
- Undress him. He shouldn’t be tasked with removing his own pants. He’d prefer it if you pulled down his zipper and pulled off his shirt for him. There’s just something sexy about having your partner undress you.
- Initiate a threesome. He would never ask you to invite your hot friend into bed for a threesome, but he’d be happy if it actually happened. Of course, most of us aren’t willing to share our boyfriends, so this fantasy will have to remain in his wildest dreams.
