Don’t Forget The N-Spot: How To Use Nipple Play To Make Sex Amazing

Discovering what you like during sex can be tricky the kinkier you get, especially since there’s no accounting for taste. We all want sex to be terrific, but that means different things to different people. However, some things are pretty universal. For example, the nipples are an incredible and often overlooked erogenous zone, capable of inducing mind-blowing orgasms if you know what you’re doing.

  1. Play with them during foreplay. Everyone knows that foreplay is crucial to good sex. Getting the engine revving before the main event is the best way to ensure that the sex is amazing all the way through, and the nipples can play a large role. The nerve endings there are a direct link to the ones down below, so stimulating them during foreplay will make the main event so highly anticipated that it’ll be more amazing than normal.
  2. Don’t stop playing when you’ve started actually having sex. It’s a common sex mistake to reduce the kissing and foreplay when actual sex has begun. While the foreplay has (hopefully) done its intended job, you want to remain highly stimulated the entire time in order to have the most pleasant experience. If you go back to the kissing and the n-spot periodically, you’ll ensure that your sexual encounter is as gratifying as possible.
  3. It works on guys, too. The magical N-spots aren’t exclusive to females; guys have them too, and theirs have just as many nerve endings. Start playing with him while he’s playing with you, and be prepared when he gets so turned on that he has to have you right away. Have fun!
  4. Use varying pressure, depending on the intensity of the sex. You can get a little bit rough when you’re right in the middle of extremely intense sex, because the pleasure masks the majority of the pain you might experience otherwise. In fact, it’s the ideal time to get a little rough because the pleasure could very well send you right over the edge into a screaming orgasm…or two.
  5. Learn how to multi-task. If you can combine actual sex with aspects of foreplay and achieve both simultaneously, you’re going to have an incredible experience in the sack. By stimulating the most nerves possible, you’re increasing the likelihood that you’ll climax hard, again and again.
  6. Slow down and be gentle sometimes. You don’t always have to be rough to make the most of your playtime. In fact, too much roughness can kill pleasure. If you can alternate between rough/intense and slow/sensual, you’ll avoid an overload of stimulation and ensure that both of you stay engaged and get the maximum pleasure possible.
  7. Ride the pleasure wave all the way to O-town. Continued stimulation of the nipples as you’re approaching your final destination can actually help push you over the edge into an incredible orgasm. It can feel really intense during that time, but you won’t regret it if you continue the amazing multi-tasking action. In fact, it can be enough to catapult you into multiple orgasms, one after another, making you completely lose yourself. If you haven’t tried playing with your nipples (or his), do yourself and him a favor and start experimenting; you wont regret it.
Anna Martin Yonk is a freelance writer and blogger in sunny North Carolina. She loves hanging out with her goofy husband and two rescue dogs and can be found at the beach with a drink in hand whenever possible. You can find her on Instagram @mrsyonkdogmom or on her Facebook page.
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