Forget Butterflies — Here’s What You’ll Really Feel When You Meet “The One”

There are some cliches that have been around for what seems like forever. They’re used in novels, on television shows, and in movies and no one bats an eye, because they’ve heard it all before. Of course, not all of the common phrases you hear are actually true. When you find the love of your life, you probably won’t feel like there are butterflies flapping around in your stomach. You’ll feel something much sweeter.

You’ll feel like you finally belong.

Your days of feeling left out will be over once you find the love of your life. He’ll accept you for who you are, so you won’t feel pressured to pretend that you’re someone you’re not in order to fit in. You’ll finally feel like you’re right where you belong.

You’ll feel like a better person.

Some of us don’t value ourselves as much as we should, which is why we don’t actively try to better ourselves. However, once you find someone that makes you happy, you’ll want to give them everything that they deserve, which is why you’ll aim to become the best person that you could be.

You’ll feel comfortable.

A quiet car ride won’t make you anxious, because the silence will be comfortable. You’ll feel more comfortable in your skin, too. You won’t even feel the need to brush your hair or put in your contacts as soon as you get up, because you know that your partner doesn’t care what you look like.

You’ll feel sexy.

All your partner has to do is look at you to make you feel sexy. The way his eyes scan over your body will remind you that he loves every inch of you—even the parts of you that you consider flaws.

You’ll feel appreciated.

Your exes might not have appreciated the expensive presents you bought and the meals you made, but the right guy for you will appreciate the little things. You don’t have to put on a song and dance in order to impress him. He’ll make you feel appreciated, just for being you.

You’ll feel like you’re at home.

Home doesn’t have to be a place. It can be a person. When you meet the love of your life, you’ll always feel like you’re right where you’re supposed to be, even when you’re miles away from your hometown.

You’ll feel like you don’t have to worry.

Once you find your soulmate, the future stops becoming scary and starts becoming exciting. You won’t be able to wait until you get to move into an apartment, get married, and start your long life together.

You’ll feel like you’ve found your best friend.

Your boyfriend should double as your best friend. He should be the first person you want to tell your good news to and the last person you want to deliver bad news to. His happiness is your happiness, after all.

You’ll feel like yourself.

 Even though you’ve had decades to get to know yourself, the right person will bring out parts of yourself you never knew existed. You’ll see a whole new side to your personality.

You’ll feel like your life has changed.

Even though your schedule might be the only thing that actually changes when you meet Mr. Right, it’ll feel like so much more has changed. Your whole world will feel a little different.

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