Whether you want everyone you meet to think you’re pretty special, you want your exes to regret losing you, or you just want to be a force to be reckoned with, here’s how you can become an unforgettable woman.

Have a natural zest for life.

The world is a tough place to live in and it tends to make people negative and cynical, so it can be refreshing to substitute that with a positive and optimistic attitude. When you have an unquenchable thirst for life and choose to see the good in everything, people usually find that hard to ignore. They’ll take notice and will always remember you because of it.

Practicing genuine kindness.

Having a warm heart and being kind to others makes you a woman people can’t help but think about because they see you impacting lives. Sometimes your generosity and thoughtfulness may be taken for granted, but most of the time you’ll end up improving someone’s day or life. You don’t have to save the world or bleed your heart dry, but showering the people you love and strangers with sincere kindness will always make them remember you.

Be independent.

Women who know their worth and who fearlessly stake their claim on the world are incredible. The mark of an unforgettable woman is being able to shoulder your own struggles without waiting for a man to swoop in and save the day. It’s being able to live loudly and proudly on your own terms. Finding love, joy, and satisfaction within yourself first and foremost.

Establish meaningful connections.

Have you ever met someone that you were able to hit things off with easily? When you get to know them for a few miniutes, it feels like you’ve known them forever. The ability to forge meaningful connections with the people you come across is one way to make yourself really hard to forget. Don’t be the woman who builds her life around every romantic relationship and has to tear it down when it ends. Have a close network of friends, family, and coworkers that you can share aspects of your life with.

Be resilient and persistent.

It’s difficult to forget a woman who doesn’t let anything keep her down for long. She doesn’t throw up her hands and call it quits just because something isn’t going her way. Whatever challenges that work or personal life throws at her, she catches and turns around. She’s the type of woman who fights hard for the people she cares about. If she’s in your corner, she’ll never let you give up on yourself.

Be passionate about something.

One of the things that draws me to people is their passion. It could be about anything: work, politics, literature, knowledge, charity, or even food. When you exude passion, you come off as confident, caring, and full of infectious energy. I didn’t really care about tech until I met someone who loved the industry. Hearing him talk passionately about it would fill me with so much joy and interest, and I found myself always looking forward to the next time I’d see him.

Be honest and great at communicating.

If you’re the kind of person who tends to lie a lot or can’t communicate a feeling to save your life, you’re not going to leave an impression. In fact, people will be happy to forget who you are. Being able to communicate clearly and tactfully will endear you to lots of people because it’s a rare skill. Don’t be afraid to speak up, say your mind, or ask for what you want.

Radiate grace.

How you carry yourself is important and will inform how people see and think of you. Think about some of the unforgettable women you know, have read about, or seen on TV. What qualities make them so admirable? Try to imbibe some of them into your own life. Let people wonder what it is that makes you walk around like you own the world.

Be selfless.

Most of us are hardwired to look out for number one and only do things for others when it’s going to benefit us in some way. Screw that. Be more selfless in love and friendships. Show people how much you care without expecting anything in return. Be selfless in acts of kindness, in gifting, in words, in thoughts, in showing up for the people you care about. No one in their right mind would be able to forget you.

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