Sure, you want your romantic interest to recognize your amazing sense of humor, your charm, and your intelligence, but you also want them to find you hot. Who wouldn’t? While beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so to speak, and everyone is into different things, there are certain ways to assure the object of your affection wants to rip your clothes off. Here’s how to be sexually attractive and seduce basically anyone. It’s a lot easier than you’d assume!
- Wear what makes you feel good. You might assume that if you’re into a guy, the only way to pique his interest is to wear revealing clothes — a mini dress, something that highlights your cleavage — but that’s not the case at all. To be sexually attractive, you just need to wear whatever makes you feel like a million bucks. Maybe that’s a pantsuit. Maybe it’s jeans and your favorite band t-shirt. It’s all about the vibes you put out. If you feel good, you’ll look good.
- Get comfortable in your own skin. There’s nothing more sexually attractive than someone who feels good about who they are. If you truly love yourself inside and out and are not only accept but can embrace your flaws and see them as positives, you’re already on the right path. There’s something really hot about a woman who’s self-assured.
- Lead with confidence. Confidence is sexy, as we’ve already established, and you shouldn’t be afraid to show it. If you feel good about who you are and you know how much you have to offer, lead with that. Don’t dumb yourself down or shy away from knowing that you’re hot as hell. The only people who will be turned off by that are the ones that are insecure and not worth your time.
- Smile. Listen, it’s obnoxious as hell when a man tells you to smile and it’s also completely inappropriate. However, there’s no denying that flashing your pearly whites and generally appearing happy and upbeat is attractive, sexually and otherwise. There’s something infectious about being around someone who’s happy and loving life.
- Use your body language well. There’s nothing wrong with flirting, and part of that is using body language to your advantage. Lean in towards the person you like, touch their arm when you laugh, and generally turn on the charm. While you should always make sure the person you’re flirting with is comfortable and you’re not overstepping any boundaries, as long as they’re good, you should be too.
