When you’re in the early stages of dating a guy, you can’t be sure that you’re the only one he’s talking to. If you want him, you need to set yourself apart in some way (assuming, that is, that he’s on your level to begin with). Here are some ways you can create insane chemistry with any guy and have him craving you and only you.
- Make lingering eye contact. They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. You can use this to your advantage by having lingering eye contact with the guy you like. This can say all the things you or even him aren’t able to and can increase how attracted you are to each other. Just don’t overdo it or else you’ll creep him out. Count to three in your head and then look away. You can start pushing this limit the more you get to know each other.
- Touch him without crossing boundaries. Physical contact helps to strengthen the bond between humans. It’s up to you to find the right balance. Too much touching can make a person uncomfortable. On the flip side, avoiding physical contact can make you seem cold or aloof. Don’t be afraid to initiate hand-holding or touch his arm as you say his name. You can also be sneaky and brush up against him as you pass or reach for something.
- Drink together responsibly. Alcohol helps people to release their inhibitions. It can make you both less nervous and allow you to open up to each other more. You can share stories or past experiences over drinks without feeling embarrassed. Just be sure you aren’t drinking too much and end up making a fool of yourself.
- Laugh together. Let him get a glimpse at your sense of humor by sharing jokes and making light of situations. Guys tend to love an easy-going woman with whom they can have fun and be silly around. It’ll also help you to both relax and sort of let your guards down.
- Plan dates you can both enjoy. Planning a date shows real initiative and will let the guy know you’re definitely into him. Plan something you can both enjoy and step outside of your comfort zone. You can use this as a chance to try something you’re both new at to create unique memories. Try going on spontaneous dates or dates that’ll get your adrenaline pumping. The usual dinner and a movie date are overrated and truthfully, not that fun for many guys.
- Listen to him to learn more about him. Sometimes, we as females will go on and on to guys without giving them a chance to speak. If you want to build lasting chemistry with a guy, listen to him. Let him unload his stresses and problems on you, and in time, you’ll be his source of comfort. Use this opportunity to also listen to his passions and learn more about the things that make him happy.
- Flirt to show him interest. When you like a guy, don’t play hard to get. The chase becomes less entertaining after a while, and you might seem stuck up. This isn’t high school. Flirt with him every now and then to let him know you’re definitely interested.
- Look good and dress well. Have you ever heard the saying: Men are visual creatures? There’s a lot of truth to that. Men are usually attracted to women that fit their tastes in terms of looks. They’ll most certainly judge the book by its cover and use that to decide whether to pursue you or not. So, take advantage of this weakness. You don’t have to undergo an insane transformation. Just take care of yourself by eating healthy and exercising so your skin and body will look great. You should also put some thought into your wardrobe, and dress well.
- Wear your signature scent when you’re with him. Second to looking good is smelling good. This is more than your usual hygienic practice of showering or wearing deodorant. Find your signature scent. This doesn’t mean you have to spend hundreds of dollars on expensive perfume. You can find very affordable options online, but it’s always a better idea to go in-stores so you can compare scents. Once you find the one you like, make sure you wear it every time you’re with him. Your scent might also rub off on him, his car seat, or his bed. Whenever he smells it, he’ll instantly think of you.
- Communicate as openly as you can. Men aren’t mind readers. You can’t expect him to know how you feel, or what you’re thinking. Use your words to communicate. Take the risk or leap of faith. If shooting your shot doesn’t work, you’ll save a lot of time you would’ve wasted beating around the bush with this guy. After a while, you two will become closer and have a stronger bond since your relationship was founded on openness and honesty.
