How To Make A Guy Fall Head Over Heels In Love With You, According To A Guy

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about love in my life, it’s that you can’t force or manufacture love. That being said, you can sometimes point it in the right direction. That’s good news for you ladies because we guys can sometimes be somewhat impressionable. If you can get a guy’s attention and at least put yourself on his radar, there are ways you can entice him to fall head over heels for you. Here are some things you might try.

  1. Look your best. Admittedly, most guys are superficial. I’m sorry, we just are. That means appealing to a guy physically is usually the first step in making a guy fall for you. Keep in mind that your appearance will likely be his first impression and perhaps his lasting impression of you. If you look your best for a guy, you’ll at least have a fighting chance. That doesn’t mean you should have to change your appearance to be someone you’re not, just that you should be your personal best.
  2. Show interest in him. Guys who aren’t into playing games usually just want someone who’s into them. It takes all of the guesswork out of courtship if you make your interest clear. Without being too clingy, try to show a guy that you dig him and want to get to know him better. It will flatter him and at least get him thinking about you as a romantic possibility. Again, this is a great way to get on his radar and at least create the possibility of him falling for you.
  3. Shower him with compliments. Most guys have egos that need to be fed regularly. When you’re the one feeding that ego, a guy is more likely to fall for you. A lot of guys are simple in that they want to be around someone who makes them feel good about themselves. If you can compliment a guy the right way, he’ll see you in a positive light and want to be around you as much as possible.
  4. Make plenty of eye contact. I can’t quite explain this, but there’s something irresistible about a woman who’s always making eye contact. I think it’s because it’s one way of receiving attention from someone. There’s also something inherently flirtatious about the right kind of eye contact, which guys also love. If you can do it right, you can almost hypnotize a guy into falling for you with eye contact.
  5. Be confident. There’s something about a confident woman that most men can’t resist. If you can exude confidence, a guy will think there’s something special about you. He’ll be attracted to you in a way that extends beyond your looks, which is vital if you want a guy to fall head over heels for you. When you’re confident, a guy will be infatuated with your personality, which is a big step in the right direction.
  6. Laugh together. There’s no easier way to fall for someone than just being able to laugh with them. If you can make a guy laugh, there’s a good chance he’ll fall for you. If not, then there’s no harm in laughing at his jokes (or his attempted jokes). Guys love being able to get a woman to laugh and smile. It’s another way that we feed our egos. The more you do around him, the more likely he is to fall for you.
  7. Let him know you think about him. One of the best ways to get a guy to fall for you is to show him attention. If you can let him know that you think about him sometimes, it will likely pique his interest. The trick is that you have to do that without being too obvious or clingy. It’s a fine line that’s not always easy to walk, but subtly letting him know he’s on your mind could prove particularly intriguing for him.
  8. Make physical contact. Okay, so you don’t always have to sleep with a guy to get him to fall for you. I mean, it never hurts, right? But other forms of physical contact can help too. Hugs, shoulder rubs, or any other kind of intimate touch can make your interest clear and entice a guy to go crazy for you. The trick is to find the perfect combination of attention and affection, both of which men love.
  9. Show him you’re smart. Ladies, don’t ever think you need to dumb yourself down to get a guy to fall for you. That might work with jerks, but not with guys you actually want to be with long-term. Ultimately, most men prefer a woman who’s smart and interesting to talk to for more than a few minutes. It may sound surprising, but a great conversation can actually play an important part in a guy falling head over heels for you.
  10. Force him to try new things. One of the best ways to make a lasting impression on a guy is to take him out of his comfort zone. Getting him to try new things makes you interesting and separates you from every other woman he’s ever met. He’ll never be bored and he’ll always want to be around you. Over time, those are the types of things that can make a guy fall in love with you.
Bryan Zarpentine graduated from Syracuse University and lives in upstate New York, where he writes largely about the world of sports. His work has appeared on Franchise Sports and WSN, among others. You can find him on Twitter @BZarp.