How To Make Him Lose His Mind Over You In The Best Way Possible, According To A Guy

If you spend enough time around someone, they’re bound to drive you a little nuts even if you love them. As a guy, I can tell you that you ladies do plenty of things that really annoy us (and I’m sure the same can be said in return). Of course, if you want to make your boyfriend lose his mind over you in a good way, there are definitely ways to do it.

  1. Be confident. I can’t emphasize enough how important it is for women to feel comfortable and confident. This is particularly true when it comes to your physical appearance. Guys can usually sense insecurity, which can be a major turn-off. But if you take care of yourself and are confident in your appearance, he’ll definitely notice and be into it.
  2. Try something new. Most guys are afraid of getting bored and getting stuck in a rut when in a committed relationship, so if you want to keep him engaged in the relationship and make him go nuts for you, it’s best to keep things fresh. You can change your look, change your date night routine, or even try new things in your sex life. If you switch things up, it’ll make the relationship feel new.
  3. Send pics. Most of us post pics on social media for the whole world to see, right? But if you want to make a guy lose his mind, take some pics that are just for him. He’ll love knowing that you went through the trouble of taking a selfie intended for his eyes only. It’ll make him feel special, which will drive him nuts for you in a good way. I should mention that these don’t necessarily have to be sexy pics, although it wouldn’t hurt to do that sometimes. Just send him a pic of you smiling and enjoying your life.
  4. Cook his favorite food. Yes, it’s a cliche, but it’s true that the way to a guy’s heart is through his stomach. If you can master how to cook his favorite food, he’ll love you so much that he’ll lose his mind. If you do it early in the relationship, he’ll probably start thinking about marrying you. It’s best to surprise him with his favorite meal if you can pull it off.
  5. Smell good. Sorry, ladies, but it’s hard to explain this one without being a little creepy. The fact is that smell is a huge part of being attracted to someone. The right smell can literally make a guy lose his mind with how much he wants you. Obviously, different guys prefer different scents because of science or whatever. But if you can figure out a smell that he likes, you will have discovered one way to drive him nuts.
  6. Smile more. In my humble opinion, there are few things as sexy as a woman’s smile.¬† I can’t quite put into words how to do this the right way to really get under his skin, but if you can convey just how much you want him with just a smile, you’re doing well.
  7. Share a dream about him. It’s hard to flatter a guy more than telling him that you had a dream about him. It plays to our ego and confirms that we’re on your mind. Plus, we love hearing that you were technically thinking about us while you were in bed. It doesn’t even have to be a sexual dream, although that’s obviously even better.
  8. Wear his clothes. This one I can’t fully explain, but guys love seeing a woman wearing their clothes. I think it gives us a sense of ownership or perhaps reassurance that you’ve chosen us as your partner. The best example is having a woman wearing one of our button-down shirts. This is just way too sexy.
  9. Laugh at his jokes. There are only a few things guys loves more than knowing they made a woman laugh. It gives us such a sense of accomplishment. When we know that we made you laugh, we become so entranced with you that we lose our minds. Suddenly, our focus becomes trying to make you laugh again and again. We lose all sense of everything else that’s important and focus solely on you.
Bryan Zarpentine is a freelance writer and editor whose work can be seen in many forms throughout the Information Superhighway.