If you’re tired of waiting for love to come into your life, why not manifest it? If you’re not familiar with the concept of manifestation, it’s the idea that you can create the life you want through your beliefs and actions. If you always have thoughts in your head like, “I’m never going to find love,” you likely won’t. However, you can manifest the kind of love you want in your life if you practice a few simple steps.
- Know what you’re looking for in love. It’s hard to bring the kind of love into your life that is healthy and good for you if you’re not even sure what it looks like. You don’t necessarily need to know what physical characteristics your love has. Instead, focus on the feelings he brings to you. Imagine him listening to you after a hard day or enjoying the kind of activities you hope to enjoy with him. Does he make you feel safe, sexy, beautiful, smart, or is there something else that you imagine feeling when you’re around him?
- Visualize what it’s like to have love in your life. Practice this often. Sit down in a place that you might spend time with him and imagine him beside you. You might be exploring another city or having a picnic in the country. What would you talk about? Where would you go? Who would you spend time with together? Are you enjoying the city life of parties or are you renovating your house together?
- Be the person you want to love you. This is one of the most important things you need to do in order to manifest love into your life. Have you ever heard the saying, like attracts like? It’s true. If you want to attract someone that makes communication and tenderness a priority in his relationships, then practice those things in your own relationships with friends and family members.
- Don’t be so stuck on your vision that you don’t see love when it knocks on your door. This is why it’s important not to get stuck on the physical characteristics of the love of your life. He may be nothing like the physical image that comes to your mind. If you’re stuck on a physical version of your soulmate, you might miss him when he comes along.
- Create a vision board. Not only is this a great way to keep a clear vision of what you’re looking for in love in front of you all the time but it’s a lot of fun. Collect old magazines from friends or family members and get your scissors ready. Cut out pictures and images that make you feel the way you expect to feel when love comes into your life. If you’re very creative, there are many ways you can create a vision board. It can be as simple as using a piece of poster board to utilizing different mediums like paint, clay, glass, or anything else that speaks to you.
- Make room for love in your life. This is something that many people forget to pay attention to. If you want to have love in your life, you need to have room for it. If you live in a dirty little studio apartment that has food rotting in the fridge, do you think love would be attracted to that? If someone came into your life and saw that you do nothing but work and sleep, would they feel like there was room for them in your life? Make sure that when he meets you and gets to know you, he can see that your life is ready for him.
- Practice giving love to receive love. Learn to give love freely. Sometimes you’ll get it in return and sometimes you won’t. But it’s a gift. It isn’t supposed to come with strings attached or the expectation of being returned in a certain way. Loving people attract loving people.
- Surrender to love. This may be the hardest part. Surrender is never easy. It means taking a chance at getting hurt. You could get turned away or you might have to make some tough choices. But when you surrender to the idea of falling in love and the act of loving without fear or doubt, love will recognize you. This may be one of the biggest hurdles that people have when they try to manifest love.
