How To Tell The Feelings He Has For You Are Getting Serious

It’s not always easy to know for sure if the guy you’re dating has caught a massive case of the feels for you or is just messing around. Here are 10 signs that prove you’re in his heart so you don’t waste any of your precious time.

He makes time he doesn’t have.

Everyone’s busy, but people will always make time for those that they see as being important to them. If you’re dating this guy and he’s serious about you, he’s going to make sure you’re a priority. He’ll see you even if he has to cut dates short and he’ll call you whenever he can, even just for five minutes. The most important thing is that he does it because he wants to, not because he has to.

He appreciates your talents.

Are you good at fixing computers or designing websites? Are you kind? Are you a great animal lover? Whatever skills and traits you have, a guy who’s serious about you will not only notice them but make use of them. For instance, when he needs someone to give him advice on his website design, he’ll ask you because he knows how awesomely talented you are. When he’s worried about his cat who’s looking under the weather, he’ll call you because he knows how much you invest time and care into looking after your fur babies. The result? You feel needed.

He gradually lets you in.

Beware of the guy who dumps all his problems on you on the first date. A guy who’s serious about you will take his time when it comes to opening up to you. He’ll want to show you what he’s all about, on good and bad days. He’ll make you feel that he’s being open and honest with you because he has nothing to hide – and he shouldn’t if he sees you as being an important part of his life.

He lets you be yourself.

Have you ever felt that you couldn’t be your true self around someone? Something was just not vibing. If a guy accepts who you are and shows interest in what you’re all about without judging you when you speak up about your opinions, this sets the stage for the best kind of relationship: you can be yourself! It feels so awesome and comfortable.

He means what he says.

A guy who’s playing around is going to tell you one thing and do another. But not a guy who’s really serious about you. He’ll stick to what he says and show you that he can be trusted. This isn’t just about texting you when he said he would, but telling you he likes you and then acting like it, like by not ignoring you when he’s out with his mates.

He pays attention.

You know what they say: date a good listener! But a guy who’s serious about you will go the extra mile after being a good listener. He’ll make you feel that when you speak to him, you have his undivided attention. He’ll also show that he’s really been listening by remembering details you tell him. He’s investing his attention in you!

He doesn’t challenge you in a bad way.

When you’re in a relationship with someone, you want to be challenged a bit and pushed out of your comfort zone. But there are bad ways in which someone can challenge you, like when they overstep your boundaries. A guy who’s serious about you will respect where you’ve drawn your lines and he’ll take “no” for an answer the first time instead of trying to steamroll over you.

He’s all about “we.”

You can tell a guy’s thinking of a future with you in it when he uses “we” instead of “I” in sentences. This shows you that he’s thinking of more than just himself and what he wants — he wants to have an amazing adventure with you!

He moves through milestones.

While you don’t want to be with someone who rushes you through relationship milestones so that your head spins, you also don’t want to feel like you’re stuck in a relationship dead-end, either. When a guy’s serious about you, he’ll want the relationship to progress, not too quickly but at a pace that feels comfortable for both of you.

He makes an effort with your family.

If he’s introducing you to his folks and he’s keen to meet yours, that’s a really good sign that he likes you. But how can you tell if he’s serious about you? If he makes an effort with people you love, even if it’s not easy all the time – you know how crazy families can be! Ultimately, this behavior shows that he values you and cares about things and people you care about.

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