How To Turn Him On Without Touching Him

How To Turn Him On Without Touching Him ©iStock/Sjale

Men are visual creatures, so you don’t actually have to touch them in order to get their juices flowing. Instead of giving your boyfriend a smooch or rubbing his thighs when you want to initiate intercourse, you can have fun with it. Get creative by turning him on in new ways that don’t even involve touching him. Then he’ll walk right up to you and start sex off with a bang.

  1. Text him something dirty. You don’t have to send him nudes. Your words can turn him on as much as your body can. Tell him how badly you want to put your hands on him and explain what you plan on doing to him as soon as he gets home. Just make sure you follow through on your promises later.
  2. Wear lingerie around the house. Men love to see us in lingerie. Instead of slipping into it right before you go to bed, surprise him by wearing it around your apartment. When he notices you wearing something skimpy while washing dishes and watching TV, it’ll drive him mad. It won’t be long until he puts his hands on you.
  3. Watch p*rnography with him. If you aren’t the jealous type, you can play an adult film for him instead of picking something to watch on Netflix. He should get the idea that you’re ready for sex. Even if he wasn’t in the mood before, he will be a few minutes into the movie.
  4. Tell him you’re in the mood. You don’t have to be sneaky and subtle. Your man will automatically be turned on if you’re blunt with him, so why would you beat around the bush? In the middle of conversation, tell him that you’re horny and that you want him to do something about it. After hearing that, he definitely will.
  5. Do a striptease. Pretend you’re a stripper who isn’t allowed to touch her customers. Then you can play some seductive music while you rip your shirt off and pull down your skirt. By the time you’re completely undressed, he’ll be dying to touch you.
  6. Cook for him. You can turn him on without actually doing anything sexual. All you have to do is cook him a meal and feed it to him by candlelight, and he should get the hint. Just don’t feed him anything too heavy, because you don’t want him to be so stuffed that he can’t perform.
  7. Make eyes from across the room. This works better when you’re in a public place than when you’re sitting in your own living room. Staring at him, sipping your drink suggestively, and winking will let him know what’s on your mind. With any luck, he’ll grab your hand and sneak away with you to have sex in public.
  8. Whisper in his ear. Here’s another technique that’ll work wonders when you’re out in public. Lean in close enough to whisper something saucy in his ear, like that you’re not wearing any underwear. The more inappropriate, the better.
  9. Wear an outfit that brings back a memory. Remember the dress you wore the first night you two had sex? What about that skirt you wore when you gave him the best birthday sex he ever had? Wear one of those items around the house to bring back those steamy memories.
  10. Touch yourself. You don’t have to touch him to turn him on. You can touch yourself instead. When he sees you squirming and moaning, he’ll want to be the reason why. Then you can put your hands to your sides, because he’ll be ready to do the work for you.
Holly Riordan is a writer from Long Island, New York who has authored several science fiction and horror books. A graduate of Stony Brook University, she has spent nearly a decade writing for publications including Thought Catalog, Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, and more. You can find her on Instagram @hollyrio and Twitter @hollyyrio.