There are a lot of different beliefs regarding soulmates. In the school of thought known as the Law of Attraction, the concept of fate or destiny isn’t so important. There isn’t someone out there meant to be with you. Rather, you manifest the type of person that you want to be with, and they can be anyone. It’s up to you to create the life you want using the Law, which states that like attracts like. By applying the basic principles of the Law of Attraction, you can attract a soulmate into your life based on what you desire in a partner. Find out how below!
Get clear on what you want in a partner. When working with the law of attraction, it’s important to get really clear on what you want. If you don’t know what qualities you want in a soulmate, you can’t ask the Universe to send you that person. So begin by writing a list of exactly what you want in a person. Law of Attraction gurus like Leeor Alexandra advise against focusing on physical qualities. If you do, you might attract someone who looks like your dream partner but has the personality of a walking red flag. It’s better to write a complete list of qualities that you desire in a partner, remembering that non-physical traits like kindness and loyalty are likely to make you happier than looks. Play around with your list and think about it until you have a clear idea of what your soulmate looks like.
Eliminate limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs stop the Law of Attraction from working its magic. They’re those deeply ingrained fears that replay in your head, like “I’m not pretty enough to have a boyfriend” or “All relationships end in heartbreak”. Buying into those beliefs results in negative emotions, which will bring your emotional vibration down. Your emotional vibration is the signal that goes out to the Universe and attracts similar experiences into your life. That’s how the Law of Attraction works. To manifest your soulmate, you need a high emotional vibration stemming from positive emotions. So you have to get rid of any belief that gives you negative emotions surrounding your desire and pulls your vibration down. Make a list of all the reasons why you think you don’t deserve your soulmate, and then challenge those reasons one by one, proving to yourself that they’re not real. Refer back to that list any time a limiting belief pops up.
Raise your vibration. When you experience positive emotions, your vibration is high. And when you experience negative emotions, your vibration is low. The Universe can only send you experiences that match your vibrations. So once you’ve gotten rid of limiting beliefs, the next step is to raise your vibration. To do that, simply do anything that makes you feel good. Spend time with people who build you up. Watch a movie that makes you laugh. Or look at old photos and relive your happiest memories. Do whatever you have to in order to feel happy. When that light, positive and gleeful feeling comes, you’re ready to start manifesting.
Set your intention. To manifest your soulmate in your life, simply state your intention. Rather than asking the Universe to help you find your soulmate, state your intention as if it’s already happened. Say something like, “I’m so happy I found my soulmate.” You could also set your intention to find your soulmate by using conditional language. For example, say, “Wouldn’t it be nice if I found my soulmate?” You can set your intention out loud, in your head, or even by writing it down.
Visualize your soulmate. The next thing to do is visualize the soulmate you want to attract. Once you’ve set your intention, hold an image in your mind of the exact person that matches the list of ideal qualities you wrote. As you visualize, try to include as much detail as possible. Envision how you’ll feel when you’re with them and really feel those feelings as if your soulmate is already here. Try to utilize all the senses as you visualize, from sight to sound to smell. What does it feel like when your soulmate holds your hand? Creating this image in your mind will further raise your vibration until it matches the frequency you need to attract your soulmate. The more specific you can be as you visualize, the quicker your desire will manifest.
Let go of attachment to your desire. Once you feel that you’ve put a clear image out of your ideal soulmate to the Universe, release it. Let the idea of your soulmate go and don’t dwell on it. That doesn’t mean let go of your desire for a soulmate. It means let go of trying to manifest it. You set your intention and you raised your emotional vibration to match that intention. Your work is done! You don’t need to worry about anything else.
Act as if your soulmate is coming to you. Manifesting is like ordering from an online catalog. Once you’ve paid for your item, you stop thinking about it until it arrives at your doorstep. You don’t worry that it hasn’t shown up yet and debate with yourself whether it’s really coming or not, right? It’s the same deal with the Law of Attraction. Act as if your soulmate is coming to you and you will maintain a high vibration, which will attract the things you want into your life (including your soulmate). Act as if they’re not coming and you will lower your vibration, which will attract more negative experiences.
Take inspired action. The last part of the manifestation process is known as inspired action. This means that when you feel inspired to take action, doing so will lead you closer to your desire. Trust that the Universe is guiding you towards your desire by showing you the steps you need to take to get there. Maybe you’ll feel inspired to catch up with a friend you haven’t seen in years, and that friend knows someone she’d like to set you up with. Or you feel an urge to visit a different coffee shop for a change, and in there you meet someone who changes your life. All you need to do is pay attention to your gut feeling. Inspired action always feels right and easy. You also don’t need to worry about missing opportunities for action. As long as you’re vibrating at a high frequency, the Universe will keep guiding you towards your soulmate until they’re yours.
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