I’m So Sick Of Being Nice To Guys Who Don’t Deserve It

I go into every dating experience with the best intentions, hoping that for once the guy I’m met with won’t turn out to be just another loser. So far, few have proved worth the effort I make. I’m drained from giving my kindness and courtesy to guys who don’t appreciate it and aren’t worthy of it and frankly, I’m sick of doing it.

1. I’m not a dime a dozen. I’m not the kind of woman you meet every day. I’m a catch and I expect to be treated as such. Sorry, but I’m not going to pick up the slack where a guy is slacking anymore. If he doesn’t rise to the occasion of having an amazing woman in his life, he can exit stage left and take his BS elsewhere.
2. I’m sick of not being given a fair chance. It’s annoying AF when I’m putting in the effort to make a good impression and build something real and the guy doesn’t even acknowledge my kindness. It takes time to get to know a person and dismissing me early on because I seem so easily attainable due to my kind nature is complete BS. Guys are so dense.
3. I’m sick of how lazy most guys are these days. A lot of guys lack the common sense and decency to treat a woman well, not only in terms of common decency and respect but in communication as well. It’s not that hard to reply to a text or to make a real and thoughtful plan to meet up with someone, and yet I seem to constantly meet guys who just don’t get it and don’t care to try. Ugh.
4. The more losers I deal with, the harder it becomes to open up. With each and every moron I experience, my patience gets thinner and my ability to open up dwindles more and more. I want to be open and I want to have that amazing beginning to my love story with someone, but the more I put it out there, the more disappointed I end up. WTF?
5. My hope is wearing thin. I want to believe that my perfect guy is out there, but forgive me if I’m just too exhausted and disappointed with what I’ve found thus far to truly give a crap. It’s hard to remain optimistic given the circumstances.
6. Good women shouldn’t be dealing with this crap. Women like me who have their act together shouldn’t have to put up with this garbage and yet we do every single day. It’s baffling to me how many good, strong and amazing women are being treated like we’re ordinary by guys who legit don’t deserve our attention. Women like me are an opportunity, not a guarantee.
7. I’m doing the best that I can. I’m trying my best and that’s all that I can do. I give it my best and even though I get truly fed up with the madness and the disappointment, I don’t know any other way to be. Should I just behave like a mega bitch to pique a guy’s interest? Is that what it’s coming to? I just don’t know. This process is so confusing.
8. Decent men are so painfully rare. It seems like good and decent men are so painfully rare and I’m so tired of hoping that the guy in front of me is going to be the one who’s finally and truly worth the effort. To me, when you meet someone amazing, you treat them well and make sure that they know it too. Too many guys these days slack and don’t know a good thing when it’s staring them in the face. What’s their problem?
9. It shouldn’t be this hard or this complicated. It shouldn’t be this hard of a process to find love and devotion with someone who’s truly worth having in my life. Why is my kindness constantly seen as a weakness? I just don’t get it. I’m nice to the guys I’m dating because I’m giving them a chance at a future and yet, it seems like every single time I’m mistaken for someone who’s weak, boring or uninteresting. Guys need to get the hell out with this logic. Just because I’m nice to you doesn’t mean you deserve better.
10. I feel like giving up. I’m so tired and fed up with this crap show that part of me wants to give up entirely, but the other part of me knows that giving up means letting the losers win and I don’t want that. I want to succeed and find love but it’s just so painfully difficult sometimes to muster up the energy to continue on this messed up journey.
11. I know I deserve better. I deserve a lot more than these guys I keep meeting who don’t appreciate or give a damn about the ways in which I genuinely try to make them feel cared for and appreciated. Guys these days think that this type of treatment is just a given, but when I give a guy my best, it’s only because I see potential in him for a real future. Unfortunately, this seems to be a flawed logic among the sea of toxic and ungrateful men in the modern pool of dating. I’m so sick of it. I can’t keep giving my kindness to the guys who don’t deserve it.