Why You Should Marry An Adventurous Man

Life is too short to muddle through without taking advantage of everything it has to offer. If you have an adventurous spirit, you need a partner who feels the same way and wants to get out there and experience the world. Here’s why a free spirited guy is exactly the kind you need to spend your life with:

  1. He’ll never bore you. If you pick a guy with an adventurous soul, you’re almost guaranteed an exciting life. How can you fall into a rut? He won’t let you because he refuses to live a boring existence, your marriage is exhilarating by proxy. There’s no way it’ll be dull.
  2. He’ll keep you on your toes. Just when you’re sure you’ve got him pegged, your hubby will surprise the crap out of you. This is one of the many perks of marrying an adventurous guy. It means that your relationship constantly evolves, and the two of you learn new things about each other all the time.
  3. He makes life vibrant. No need to worry that your world will have a boring black-and-white backdrop. With him around, you see everything as brighter and more wonderful than before. The combination of your two constantly seeking souls equals fireworks.
  4. He’ll challenge you in the best possible ways. You might’ve been pretty adventurous on your own, but now you’ll stretch to new heights. A partner by your side who consistently pushes you to get out of your comfort zone is the perfect man. The two of you will continue to hold each other to higher, more challenging standards.
  5. He’ll show you a whole new world. No matter how much you strike out on your own, a kindred spirit will always provide you with a fresh perspective and a new set of eyes. He’ll encourage you to try what you usually wouldn’t and view the world in an alternative manner. You’ll love it!
  6. He’ll make sure you have an awesome love life. You are going to have seriously great sex with an adventurous man. He’ll always be down to keep it fun, inventive and interesting. His vigor for life translates into his physical attention to you as well. He never shies away from showing his very energetic appreciation for you and all your attributes. Why would you marry anyone who gave you less? You shouldn’t.
  7. He’ll earn — and keep — your respect and devotion. Forget the men who came before him who you never held in very high regard. This man is a game-changer. His obvious lust for life and ambition to better himself, along with his love for the world, will make you a life-long devotee. Your love for him thrives alongside your respect for him; they go hand-in-hand. The best part? He’s just as respectful of you.
  8. He’ll make you fall more in love with him each day. The attributes of an adventurous man — his positivity, energy and enthusiasm — will hook you and keep you. You’ll constantly discover new, fascinating components of each other. He’s consistent in the compassion he shows the world and the devotion he shows you. All that adds up to a love of mutual love that grows rather than wanes.
  9. He’ll never let you settle into a rut. This man is magical — grab him and don’t let him go! One of the glorious benefits of love with a free spirit is that he gives you your freedom while love you fiercely at the same time. The two of you understand that your independent souls cannot be chained. Your love is all the stronger for this free rein. It means that you never get complacent or bored. You have too much going on in your lives, both together and apart.
  10. He inspires you to grow and change. Stagnant people form stagnant relationships. An adventurous man lives for change. He refuses to allow himself to grow lazy and complacent. You are like this as well, and your partnerships with men who are not just never work out. Your love with this man will perpetually inspire you, and the two of you will have a beautiful marriage because you’re committed to creating a flourishing, living, growing relationship.
A former actress who has always loved the art of the written word, Amy is excited to be here sharing her stories! She just completed her first novel, and is also a contributor for Elite Daily, Dirty & Thirty, and Thought Catalog. Amy is the founder of What If Journey and can be found on Twitter @amyhorton18. You can also visit her website at amyhorton.net.