It’s safe to say that COVID-19 has had a massive effect on every element of our lives, including our sex lives. It’s not only complicated to organize getting down and dirty with that special (or not-so-special!) someone, it can be potentially dangerous. However, there are a few positions you can try out that leave you less at risk of contracting the novel coronavirus, at least according to sexual wellness brand LELO.
- Try “The Masked Rider” on for size. This position is said to make it easier for your partner to reach your erogenous zones, but it’s also nothing new. All it requires is for you to straddle your partner while facing around them like The Reverse Cowgirl, but you’re breathing new life into it by potentially wearing a mask (even if just momentarily and for fun). “This position is perfect for cowgirls wanting to be in control,” LELO said. “Plus, as you have easy access to your clitoris this is the perfect position to use a vibrator or stimulate yourself with your hands and you grind up against your partner.”
- “The Climb” sounds fun, but it does require props. Hopefully you live in a multi-story house, because you’ll need a staircase to take part in this one. Basically, you’re just doing doggy style but instead of being on your hands and knees on the bed, you’re using the stairs as a support. “The position takes advantage of the inclination and steps to create new angles and supports for an original position,” according to LELO. “The stairs allow the partner at the front to get more height, they can be standing or kneeling.”
- If that’s not up your street, how about “The Masked Embrace”? This one is good whether you’re in a couple or alone, LELO says, and it’s also very simple. You only need to lie face-down on the bed with your legs straight and hips slightly raised. “Have your partner lie on top of you. For deeper penetration come up to your knees,” they explain. “This position creates a snug fit to allow you to feel close to your partner, even without being face-to-face. For those singletons in desire of trying a similar position, use a sex toy with a base so that it can be secured to a surface, or secure your toy between two pillows for that special sensation.”
- Finally, you can always try going tantric. Tantric sex isn’t just for Sting and Trudie Styler – all couples can and should try it at least once. If you’re not sure what it entails, it’s all about making eye contact with your partner and touching sensually rather than being in a hurry to get the deed done. “Try connecting in other ways such as synchronized breathing, or touch and play that is with your eyes closed and lead-by the sensation of touch,” LELO suggests. “Focusing on areas of the body that you wouldn’t usually during sex can help build erogenous zones and take your attention elsewhere.”
